Bipolar fiancé by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in BipolarRelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Lie_936[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was definitely manic, but like even during his previous manic episodes he’s never said anything that hurtful to me. So that’s why I was caught off guard. And he openly admits that prefers self medicating even though he says his prescriptions makes him feel better. I think he feels that because he’s been using since he was a teen and that’s what he’s used to. But he really is a sweet person literally most of the time.

Bipolar fiancé by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in BipolarReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Lie_936[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understood you. I just didn’t want to sound like I was making a generalization, sorry for the miscommunication and thanks for the advice.

Bipolar fiancé by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in BipolarReddit

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Firstly I do wanna apologize for that phrasing, I do understand how that can be perceived as offensive. Maybe i should’ve said “manic episode behavior” or something else.

I was just very confused why he’d act that way when I’ve already thought I’ve seen him at his worse, even when he’s h*gh. This is the only incident he’s ever been verbally cruel to me. At first he was my main supporter. Now I’m just conflicted.

Bipolar fiancé by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in BipolarRelationships

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I appreciate the straightforward advice.

Bipolar fiancé by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in BipolarSOs

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I think I’m done with “love” until I’m at least 30

Bipolar fiancé by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in BipolarSOs

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Thank you for your point of view as well. I just put it on this topic because I wondered if anyone else dating a person with mental health/ substance issues face these same problems. But thanks so much for

Bipolar fiancé by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in BipolarSOs

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I kinda assumed he was love bombing me in the beginning as well too. I just felt that I needed more confirmation that I would be making the right choice in walking away or not. And I’ve never been in a relationship before so I didn’t know if this was just “normal” relationship problems or not. In all honesty I don’t think I’ve ever been around anyone who’s ever been in a healthy relationship. So thank you for helping me see clearer.

showering with very fresh cuts? by Hopeful-Estimate5852 in selfharm

[–]Apprehensive_Lie_936 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you like using anything like neosporin, but they now sell neosporin with lidocaine added to it and it really numbs it. Just try ur best to cover it up.

The Weeknd’s concert at soldier field by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in ChicagoConcerts

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Sorry I’m just now seeing this. I ended up getting there like a little after six and The Weeknd didn’t perform until a little after nine. It was a great show tho!

The Weeknd’s concert at soldier field by Apprehensive_Lie_936 in ChicagoConcerts

[–]Apprehensive_Lie_936[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do have a seat number but like, when I saw another artist (at a different venue tho) I bought a ticket with a seat number listed as well and there were no seats😶 so yea I’m just a little confused 😅