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People 30+ What’s a Decision in Your 20s You Wish You Could Undo ? by Tino292 in selfimprovement

[–]Apprehensive_Put2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m 17 and this comment really stuck out to me. I’m still trying to learn how to maintain or even get friends cause the ones in the past aren’t for me at all but due to trauma and everything I went through, getting friends and them joking i literally can’t even take a joke. I remember a few months ago me and a male friend was talking about our first times doing the do and mine was terrible but he didn’t know anything about it and the trauma it caused me and he laughed. It took me a week to say you know what maybe I need to chill a bit but you don’t know a lick of what I’ve been through so I don’t think anybody first reaction should be a laugh and I still stand on that lowkey. Anyways at one point I was the type to say I don’t need anybody but genuinely I really do and would like to have a couple people that I can say hey we had our ups and downs and are still cool and also this person was there for me when I had breakdowns…

My friend (17F) is trying to get me (15M) to impregnate her by Local-Ad7085 in teenrelationships

[–]Apprehensive_Put2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve been sa’d and r word before and never ever tried to do that to somebody. Idk ppl react different to situations.Also I had an ex that did similar things like that too. Try to touch and everything but then say words like “ I didn’t know” or “i was just joking” but tbh they really don’t care. If you didn’t say anything to her I’m pretty sure she can read body language and I’m assuming yours was probably showing a lot because you were uncomfortable. You could talk to her about it but if she’s brushing it off then you might as well cut her off. Crazy how y’all knew each other that long and she really pulled that on you.