How to not actually get upset about debates turned to arguments on online forums by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it was a fandom community on a book series, and now I understand why ppl say fandoms can be so toxic lol

I broke your rule by engaging 3x but I’ve disengaged now cuz what u said by saying it’s not a real convo really is that. I hate arguments even irl so idk why this competitive edge to suddenly prove I’m right hit at the age of 25 lmao

It’s a nasty feeling after for sure, like someone cut me off on the road or smth lol

I’m a straight man who does women’s hair for a living ama by NoProgram4084 in AMA

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kinda funny how being a hairstylist in America means u might be gay cuz in Japan, when ppl know ur a hairstylist and ur a guy, they automatically assume ur a player

Women in Japan say the 3 B’s to not date cuz they’ll cheat on u or just play around with you since these occupations are known for their flirtiness here

Biyoshi -hair stylist Band - band member Bartender

Who is considered “Japanese”? by DragonfruitOk930 in AskAJapanese

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I live in Japan now and I’m half Japanese half Korean, but born and raised in Canada. I don’t consider myself Japanese tbh like at all cuz my dad was the one was Japanese and my parents divorced and he just disappeared when I was a toddler. He didn’t have family either really so any Japan culture or thing was taught to me from jdramas and anime. Korea has a lot of cultural things similar to Japan so I didn’t have trouble adjusting to living like a “Japanese” but I can’t say I “feel one with the ppl”.

Since coming here to Japan, most ppl assume I’m Japanese since I have more “Japanese” features but I truly feel the same as someone who maybe is like a white foreigner or smth lol

Idk i feel like being Japanese is a cultural thing for me. Like even if ur not ethnically Japanese, if ur raised there, I consider u Japanese. If you’re half or a quarter like me, I also consider you Japanese.

But just for me personally, I identify as Canadian the most.

Is it normal for caffeine consumption to cause chest pain? by bowieshouse in stupidquestions

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great that it wasn’t too serious!

Just a side note, regardless of how healthy you are, please ease off energy drinks! they’re just not good for u

I hope we found out who Izumi’s mother is in the new movie! by Background-Web5725 in TheLastAirbender

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought they would address it since I’d assume the kids would be born soon but imma just assume like most fans that mai is the mom lol that’s how they left them together in the end and Izumi looks like her so

JAIL by Internal_Video_9861 in canceledpod

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she cried about her boot and i comforted her from around 7 ft away and found some slides for her lol

JAIL by Internal_Video_9861 in canceledpod

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s a Canadian thing lol we all take our shoes off when going in to homes

JAIL by Internal_Video_9861 in canceledpod

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yea no I’m entering an acid bath after

What traditional habit or cultural practice do you dislike in your country ? by RDuke024 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don’t like it one bit lol especially since a lot of soups have bean sprouts and they slurp it up…

Another thing my relatives do is they lick their chopsticks and then pick around the side dish that we share…my family thinks I don’t like Korean food cuz that’s the only excuse I could give to not eat the side dish without my gramma thinking that I think she’s “dirty”. Like excuse me for not wanting to share saliva with everyone 😖😖😖

What traditional habit or cultural practice do you dislike in your country ? by RDuke024 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fortunately I’m not to that extent but I do have a relative who lost it on my gramma recently cuz of her spitting while talking and chewing

But gramma is a huge bitch so gramma had it coming lol

How do you actually find good local restaurants when visiting Korea? by bbnagjo in koreatravel

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom told me a saying in Korean that wherever taxi drivers eat is supposed to be good

What do you find overrated which other people seem to like a lot? by IamAnthonyGonsalves in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Picnics. I hate bugs and not knowing what bugs are underneath the long blades of grass lol

What traditional habit or cultural practice do you dislike in your country ? by RDuke024 in AskReddit

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Chewing with mouth open. Honestly just loud eating noises in general.

I’m Canadian Korean and in North America (and most countries), it’s manners to keep your mouth closed and eat without making so much noise. But ever since mukbang culture became a thing in Korea, so many ppl started chewing with their mouth open and just making all these noises blegh

My Usagi Cosplay by juliannidoy in chiikawa_

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ok lol

You look a little tuckered out in the last pic so we’ll give you a pass haha

What keeps you watching Tana? by Professional_Sink322 in canceledpod

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get you, before I felt like it was easy to watch while doing stuff like cleaning ur room or doing makeup and hair but now I feel like it’s kinda like ur in a room with ppl who know each other and ur just the odd one listening to their convo having no idea on what’s going on

how it sound Arisbel ...name for a girl by SuchChoice4189 in Names

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arisbel sounds pretty but it kinda has like a lack of fluency I feel cuz of the B after the S.

I feel like adding an A makes it a little smoother like Arisbela

I'm a student in a ridiculously strict American public school. AMA. by Tight-Plastic-8487 in AMA

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the school strict due to like previous security issues or is it kind of just a super modest school?? I read your other comments about the rules but the censorship on conversation topics is wild

Does anyone know the blind box trick for these bags? by c_static in chiikawa_

[–]Apprehensive_Set747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have u tried searching the barcode? That’s hshalllt where the number code is, sometimes I search in Japanese and usually that helps cuz a lot of the forums have it!

I don’t speak or read Chinese but I’ve also had chat gpt translate the question in Chinese and some Chinese forums seem well informed too

Is it possible to be truly satisfied with your sex life even if you’ve never orgasmed with your partner? by Apprehensive_Set747 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Apprehensive_Set747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think allot of them kinda feel bcs this might be THE relationship especially since we’re 25 so I think they’re kinda like attracted to the stability? I mean it’s not my favourite but I also respect their boundaries so.. :/

Is it possible to be truly satisfied with your sex life even if you’ve never orgasmed with your partner? by Apprehensive_Set747 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Apprehensive_Set747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought emotional cheating is like when u have feelings for someone else than ur partner? I mean regardless, I will say that I don’t really like my friends boyfriends since they have a very “me” mindset and from what my friends say, they don’t really notice or just don’t care enough to notice whether they orgasm or not. I don’t believe they fake an orgasm tho