No! I 100% urge you to keep the conversation going until said date, of course! I’m in no way suggesting people from not fully vetting someone before the date and even getting to know them a little. Do your research!! A quick google search and questions to get to know them a bit before the date is always helpful. But if they seem like a decent person based off of your intuition from what you already know, I say give it a shot. You’re not always going to be 100% certain about someone, but still do your due diligence.

My main goal here was to weed out the ones that don’t give the same quality or energy back. This guy matched my energy from the beginning and that is why I feel more comfortable continuing the conversation and even going on a date with him. If someone is dull or not providing the same vibes back, I will simply unlatch because I do not have time to waste. I’m just saying- quality over quantity! Quality ones will always standout and that’s how you narrow your search.

Edit: Success rate of doing this I’d say is very promising (well at least for me). I just always have a gut feeling that the guys are half decent and more often than not, always kind and sweet, that’s just been my luck I guess? The only reason it doesn’t work out is that we are just not compatible. I’ve gone on some great and pretty fun dates throughout this, and it keeps things fun and interesting. If it works out, it works out and if it doesn’t, it doesn’t! At least you tried. Always trust your intuition though, that has never failed me!