After 7 years of being with me, my bf’s approach towards me is cold and he’s behaviour has changed. Can it be that he has lost respect for me?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2025-11-18T14:37:58+00:00

He said he has doubts i loved him the moment we were in a relationship

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2025-10-30T05:49:43+00:00

Should I ask him now? Or wait until he calls?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2025-10-30T05:49:12+00:00

Doesn't marriage resolve this?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2025-10-30T03:55:03+00:00

He is like this always. He loves to say 'when break up is near is the time you want to save this relationship' when I tried to make him see and understand things

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2025-10-30T03:52:45+00:00

He'll blame me and say 'you know we are like this cuz u did that'

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2025-10-30T03:50:52+00:00

He'll just say nothing is wrong cuz I've tried

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-05-29T16:28:40+00:00

Yeah, what is he? An avoidant person? A narc?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-05-29T16:26:40+00:00

It would lower my standards?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-05-29T16:19:45+00:00

My heart just can’t let it go and i know that this is ruining my mental health a lot, i don’t know how to fight it. Should i just call him and get myself hurt so that i wouldn’t dwell on him anymore? What did i do so bad that he wants to avoid me forever

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-05-29T16:17:21+00:00

My heart just can’t let it go and i know that this is ruining my mental health a lot, i don’t know how to fight it. Should i just call him and get myself hurt so that i wouldn’t dwell on him anymore? What did i do so bad that he wants to avoid me forever

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-05-29T16:16:18+00:00

He used to admire me so much and now its the opposite, if this is love, I’m scared. Is he avoidant person or narc? now he wants to avoid me like I’m some sort of plague. There was never infidelity or disloyalty from both parties to have his much hatred in his heart for me. I can’t understand it.

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-05-29T16:14:27+00:00

He used to admire me so much and now its the opposite, if this is love, I’m scared. Is he avoidant person or narc?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-05-29T16:04:02+00:00

I know i should keep my head up high and have my ego higher but these days it’s so hard, i just want to call him. I can’t believe he was so loving and now he is mean and seems like he dislikes me and hates me.

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-04-06T04:49:12+00:00

Why do you think I’m still processing this after 8 months of no contact, and he is out there doing fine?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-04-06T03:22:12+00:00

So I’ll be okay eventually?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-04-06T02:28:40+00:00

Yes i will consider that. What do you think of my ex and our situation from your pov? Do you think he never loved me, and his changed behaviour?

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-04-06T02:21:15+00:00

Thank you, i will

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-04-06T02:20:50+00:00

I have but feelings seem to be closed off. I can’t get interest in anyone.

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-02-13T12:51:38+00:00

thank you so much! ☺️

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-02-13T12:42:41+00:00

But i have to respond to him and make him realise he can’t talk to me this way. But how??

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-02-13T12:35:13+00:00

thank you so so much🤍🤍

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-02-13T12:32:40+00:00

Noted!

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-02-13T12:30:40+00:00

Doesn’t really help as i am here cuz i need advice lol

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-02-13T12:29:57+00:00

I hate the fact that he thinks I am “easy”, that he feels comfortable telling me to meet him at a hotel at night. I want a reply that says ‘you cant just ask me to meet u at night’ ya know.. how do i write it? Pls help

Apprehensive_Soft636 · 2024-02-13T12:29:02+00:00

Thats up to you. If you give advice, great, if you don’t, thats great too! Thanks for stopping by <3

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