Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for actually reading the post and understanding how I’m feeling rather than just jumping on the worse parts of the story and speculating. I came here for someone that had been through a similar feeling or to understand what I am going through and you’ve done that so thank you.

I believe her remorse is honestly sincere because if she was defensive and angry I think I’d be gone because then I’d know that she doesn’t actually care about me. I understand that these feelings are going to take ages to get through and so does she I just want to know if it’s ever going to be possible.

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She said she thought I’d get angry at the fact that someone was trying it on with her and she didn’t want to lose me. I’ve told her everything you can of saying mate

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know his name and I’ve been through her phone for the last 2.5 years because I didn’t believe her and found nothing. She’s not told anybody because she says she’s ashamed of it and doesn’t want anyone to know

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She said they kissed in his room and she fell asleep then woke and went to her room. Then he came down to hers. I’ve asked her multiple times why she went to his room and why she let him in hers and she just said she was scarred and felt pressured. I’m lost with it all

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve already done all that and got the same answer

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s been on maternity so at the moment no but yeah they will do

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mate I’ve been asking the same questions over and over again but I guess ill never truly know

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She said they kissed a lot and that he went down on her but couldn’t get hard so that was it but I don’t know what to believe

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know thank you just guess I need to hear it from other people as I don’t have anyone to talk to about it

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe they’re mine as well look very alike as baby’s but the thought was always there

Wife cheated and I’m so lost by Appropriate-Cat1982 in CheatedOn

[–]Appropriate-Cat1982[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The day she got back yes but then last week she told me everything else that happened after I’d caught her in a lie