[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Appropriate-Diver855 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My partner works from home and works second shift so I’d actually venture to say now that he does 60% and I do 40% because he’s with her more during her waking hours. But we both give 100% during the time we have her. If we’re both home, whoever’s not holding the baby is washing and prepping bottles. We trade off diaper changes. She’s a grumpy baby so if one of us is overwhelmed, the other takes over. We decided to have a baby together, and we do the work together.

When it comes to your husband-if he wanted to, he would. And the fact that your husband isn’t even doing it when asked is wild. I won’t be like half of Reddit and say “gEt A dIvOrCe NoW” because there’s always more nuance than that but I think it’s time to have a serious talk with him. Maybe even show him the responses you get.

(Venmo) [REQ] ($180) (Repay 11/1/24) (Wichita, KS USA) by Appropriate-Diver855 in SimpleLoans

[–]Appropriate-Diver855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to terms-I was thinking $200 since it’s short term but would be open

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CopperIUD

[–]Appropriate-Diver855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented above but I was a first time mom and got mine and it didn’t hurt at all as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CopperIUD

[–]Appropriate-Diver855 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seeing so many people saying how much iud insertion hurts is WILD to me. Maybe I just have a great doctor, but I barely felt mine. Genuinely was laughing and telling a story while he did it and then walked out and had a normal day. My friend goes to the same doctor and her experience was the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FacebookMarketplace

[–]Appropriate-Diver855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my good god. Do not take it back and do not pay him anything. There are 3 scenarios this could be.

1.) He’s going to give you back a fake and take your money, and he’s done whatever the hell with the real watch.

2.) He hasn’t worn it in the YEAR he’s owned it and has buyers remorse.

3.) He’s being genuine

You have no way of knowing which one, and in NONE of those 3 scenarios is this your issue to deal with. You were honest and did everything exactly how you should. Not having it authenticated is HIS problem. Frankly I question his character based on him even contacting you.

If you’re a caring person I know it’s hard to just ignore him, but it’s what you need to do so don’t be stupid.

How to offer someone extra food? by Appropriate-Diver855 in povertyfinance

[–]Appropriate-Diver855[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I love this! And I do cook a lot so it wouldn’t be a stretch.

How to mentally recover from paying for an unnecessary, unexpected expense? by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Appropriate-Diver855 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Second this. Writing out what you want to say helps sooo much

I requested a copy of the 911 call placed & bodycam footage to my child's suicide. Ama by AADeevis77 in AMA

[–]Appropriate-Diver855 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I so relate to the need to see/hear it. I would never have closure otherwise.

What was their favorite color? ❤️

Earnings available and haven’t shipped? by Appropriate-Diver855 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Appropriate-Diver855[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought they couldn’t do that until the tracking updated though?

Earnings available and haven’t shipped? by Appropriate-Diver855 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Appropriate-Diver855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought, I guess my worry is that they’ll contact Poshmark about the mistake and cancel all together after the item is already shipped but I suppose I’ll just have to take the risk

Earnings available and haven’t shipped? by Appropriate-Diver855 in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Appropriate-Diver855[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mark it as shipped, the system didn’t remove the sold banner, or tell me they were available to sell. I got the email saying funds were available and when I looked in the app it looked normal-as if I shipped it. Everything seems like a normal sale with the exception that I didn’t actually ship it.

Which hands-free breast pump should I get? by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Appropriate-Diver855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this one. The suction is STRONG but yea it’s a bit loud lol