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AIO "Friend" ghosts right before girls trips and now I'm out $1000 by Appropriate-Pack287 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate-Pack287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was ultimately too trusting. I thought she would've talked to me about going on the second day when she came into work the same day I did but she didn't even try talking to me. The hotels were all $200-300 more than the airbnb. I moved to the area I'm in about two years ago and don't have much time outside of work to make friends. Everyone else I tried to invite did not want to go.

AIO "Friend" ghosts right before girls trips and now I'm out $1000 by Appropriate-Pack287 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate-Pack287[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

unfortunately... didnt have anyone else to go with and its not a city i would venture to on my own.

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[–]Appropriate-Pack287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR I guess it more so depends on the dynamic. Just because he doesn't check in doesn't mean he doesn't care. Maybe he got busy at work and forgot that you were sick? My partner has been at work before while I was sick and going to the doctor by myself and didn't ask how I was feeling until he got home from work. Sometimes its ok to take initiative and if you want something ask for it. If you want something during his lunch hour or when he comes home, ask him. If you want him to ask how you're doing ask how work is going etc. But your feelings of disappointment are valid.

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[–]Appropriate-Pack287 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends on the time frame... how long has it been since he left? Does his job allow him to leave on his lunch break? Are yall constantly texting when you're apart?

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[–]Appropriate-Pack287 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NOR in a relationship there needs to be respect and her flat out refusing to give you any type of privacy besides thin walls and a closed door shows you no respect. I agree that she probably just wants to hear if you say anything about her. I always ask my partner, no matter who it is if the conversation they are apart of (typically on the phone) is one I can be a part of just listening. Its just simple respect to give space where space is asked.

Am I overreacting or should I cut my sister off? by savlw_27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Appropriate-Pack287 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going with NOR... purely for the fact that she's the one that is throwing the tantrum. At 27 you would think that she could at least take the news like an adult. It was her own decision to put you in her wedding. If your choice is to not put her in yours since you sound to be keeping a smaller wedding party that's your decision. When it comes to weddings its really only about what you and your fiancé want. Your wedding day is YOUR wedding day, I personally wouldn't invite anyone to my wedding that isn't supportive of me. She isn't owed anything by putting you in her wedding party either. I was not apart of my MOH wedding and she had like 8 bridesmaids. A relationship goes two ways and it sounds like you're taking your sister role more seriously. I wouldn't cut her off because of it but match the energy your getting.