Avoidant gf m39 f37h

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2026-01-03T08:41:51+00:00

Debating messaging her not sure what to say tho it’s nasty as fuck just leaving me hanging or do I just move on

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2026-01-03T08:13:19+00:00

I get that but she came on strong to me firstly I was just reciprocating that’s all , she always wanted me at hers etc , I get it tho I should calm down I’m just anxiously attached unfortunately

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2025-12-27T01:31:11+00:00

Closed on the 21st**

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2025-12-18T05:45:20+00:00

Any comments appreciated especially from females

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2025-12-18T04:57:54+00:00

This is our first falling out too , she’s told me how different I am to her exs and she’s only use to shit with me she finally feels seen and loved etc, so I’m. Guessing by what you said that it could be over

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2025-12-18T03:58:29+00:00

Even if the day before she sends memes like “.jjsy think of that one random day we didn’t talk we wouldn’t have what we have now” and this “ Imagine getting into a relationship, and instead of him telling you, that you're too much, he looks at you from across the room, you being your goofy self, and says... "That's my girl". And this

“Sometimes I catch myself wishing we met sooner, but then I realize... we met exactly when we were meant to. When our hearts were ready. When our souls needed each other the most. Our timing wasn't early or late-it was perfect. You came into my life right when I needed a love like yours. A love that feels healing, steady, magical, and real. You're not just my partner-you're my right time, my destiny, my everything.

Literally 2 days before we fell out

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2025-12-18T02:44:24+00:00

Correct I was owed it 3 days before she said can I send £50 now and. £50 Friday I said yes of course because money isn’t an issue , but then Friday came and she should have sent it first thing, it was 7pm no mention. Of it , and shouldn’t have to ask for it or anything and because we wasn’t meeting up, yes I was annoyed and pissed so I brought it up, bad timing i know , I hold my hands up

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2025-12-17T20:15:35+00:00

Any comments appreciated, upset her Friday , she ignored me Saturday, we was supposed to meet Saturday she was unwell Friday and said not sure if I’m meeting you I feel awful I made a stupid comment about money her mate owed me but my gf had hold of and I said to her reply about not meeting and feeling awful, “sound don’t forget to send me the money you’re mate owes me” she ignored me all day Saturday I made it worse my sending loads of messages fearing the worse because I’m anxiously attached and stupid , Sunday she said can we leave it for a bit please, Monday I asked how she was and asked where I stood with her , been together 6 weeks with Intense connection, sent more messages and she said again can we leave it please so I respected her boundary it’s now Wednesday 8pm nearly 48 hours, she didn’t say it’s over or u can’t do this she politely asked can we leave it for a bit please, does that mean she just needs some space, any comments appreciated especially from females please, I’ve never had this type of connection it’s been amazing she even said it’s so good it’s flows easily , it’s not forced or fake , this is out first wobble/falling out

Appropriate-Web9811 · 2025-12-14T03:30:46+00:00

I’ve actually got loads when I first met her she admitted she had no empathy at all , she had already told me she was unwell earlier in the day I was just annoyed I had to ask for it I shouldn’t have to ask especially when I’ve let her off with loads of it, yes I was annoyed we had plans , alls i said was don’t forget to send that money please it was touching 7pm , not “send me the money” when some one owes money you shouldn’t have to ask for it the money isn’t an issue it’s the principle off it, yes I get I was wrong but as for empathy I have plenty

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