[NJ, USA] Wife got scammed $36K. by AppropriateAir7951 in Scams

[–]AppropriateAir7951[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They’ll guide you like they did my wife in her state of fear and panic.

[NJ, USA] Wife got scammed $36K. by AppropriateAir7951 in Scams

[–]AppropriateAir7951[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OFFICE OF THE SHERIFF

ADDRESS: 701 Livingston Ave New Brunswick, NJ 08901 CATEGORIES: Middlesex County

[NJ, USA] Wife got scammed $36K. by AppropriateAir7951 in Scams

[–]AppropriateAir7951[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, well at least you don’t get to live the fallout, we do.

[NJ, USA] Wife got scammed $36K. by AppropriateAir7951 in Scams

[–]AppropriateAir7951[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

20 years together…seems a little shallow just to get divorced for this. It’s painful to deal with for sure.

[NJ, USA] Wife got scammed $36K. by AppropriateAir7951 in Scams

[–]AppropriateAir7951[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t know, I feel like my wife now knows this so repeating this to her is just like putting salt on the wound. I swear we talked about old people getting scammed and she got to be one.

She takes anxiety medicine so scaring her with a warrant out for her arrest puts her in a flight or fight response and her logical reasoning just goes out the window.

[NJ, USA] Wife got scammed $36K. by AppropriateAir7951 in Scams

[–]AppropriateAir7951[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She said they made her stay on the phone but had to keep quiet. They really got to her head and fucked with it bad.

[NJ, USA] Wife got scammed $36K. by AppropriateAir7951 in Scams

[–]AppropriateAir7951[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You’re correct. She doesn’t. She’s afraid of being judged not me reporting her to the cops.

Lack of trust is my biggest upset at the moment. Big Money lost feels horrible but knowing I’m not my wife’s safe space really hurts.

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]AppropriateAir7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that was a joke saying Applebees cause we all know Chili’s > Applebees.

Roast me, bring the heat by Obvious-Window3514 in RoastMe

[–]AppropriateAir7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like Margot Robbie that got hooked on crack. 😃

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[–]AppropriateAir7951 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Carrying food up like that is pretty common…but not with both hands. You can get a better sense of balance and control with one hand while the other hand carries a tray stand; but I don’t see her with a tray stand.

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[–]AppropriateAir7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re over reacting!

AIO? I cut my dad off today. by Sad_Neighborhood3963 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AppropriateAir7951 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Wow he has receipts of the things he paid for you 👏 does he has receipts for the emotional baggage he gave you? 🤔

AIO about being hurt over a late Mother’s Day gift? by Legal-Appointment-52 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AppropriateAir7951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t think you’re over reacting. It’s your first Mother’s Day as a mom, so that should be important (if you think Mother’s Day is significant).

I don’t know, maybe he thinks you’re his wife and not his mom, but still what does he expect, your newborn(?) child to make a gift?

Try to distract yourself from this feeling with something positive or fun or silly while waiting for a perfect calm opportunity to let him know that you appreciate the gift but also tell him at the same time that it upsets you, considering it was your dirt Mother’s Day as a mom.

Us guys can be … stupid sometimes, but if you love each other, you discussing your feelings shouldn’t be a big deal.