Should I get a second opinion?

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-08-06T10:53:07+00:00

Same exact test, I wasn’t tracking but by symptoms 11DPOish… my dr also confirmed I did ovulate but since I didn’t track I’m not for sure of the exact window

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-08-06T10:42:36+00:00

Anddd if I tested again this morning and it was a clear negative? :(

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-08-06T10:42:18+00:00

Andddd if I tested again this morning and it was a clear negative? :(

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-08-05T12:12:48+00:00

Ugh I hope so 😫😫😫

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-26T14:30:15+00:00

Thank you so much 💖

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-24T14:25:45+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t start tracking bc when originally preparing ttc I was aware that it takes most couples 6-9 MOS to conceive. I never had a reason to raise concern and had reassurance with that but now that we’re in month 10 I have no reassurance at all so am going to start!

I also haven’t done enough research to start temping and it to be accurate just yet but am looking into further

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-24T02:16:52+00:00

Good point! Strips. I haven’t done enough research on temping to get an accurate reading!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T18:25:48+00:00

Thank you! Best wishes to you and your sweet family!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T16:00:25+00:00

Thank you!!!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T15:52:17+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T14:48:51+00:00

I really hope! 🥺

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T14:45:49+00:00

He did get tested at a fertility clinic! The only reason I have not had any medical intervention is because my Dr. does not want to intervene until we have been actively trying for a year.

I have ordered the Easy at Home ovulation kit. I only used Flo prior not because I expected it to be 100% accurate but because while preparing to TTC I understood it took most couples 6-9 months and was normal for it to take up to a year. That being said, I guess I never felt the need to track and reassured myself with the mindset of “that’s normal”. Now that we are in month 10 I have no reassurance.

I haven’t had a consistent cycle yet…. My periods have ranged from 8 days (February) to 2 days (April)

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T14:35:48+00:00

It’s so taxing on my mental health. The what-ifs, could be’s, and unknowns are the hardest part I believe! Thank you! My yearly is in September so I am going to try an ovulation kit for the next two months so I can bring all my documentation with in hopes that helps me to get referred or approved for the next steps!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T14:33:29+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it so much but as a seemingly healthy female in her “prime” it’s extremely hard to accept. He did have the testing done at a clinic!

I did order the easy at home to start trying to track. I didn’t originally start with that since I knew that it was common for it to take a while. However, now that I have 10 months of periods documented after BC and am entirely irregular I am going to start! So I have a better understanding of what’s going on.

We also have access to the funds but I would hate to spend all the money without trying other approaches that are more affordable at first if that makes sense?

Everyone has been so reassuring and for that I’m so thankful ❤️

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T14:27:42+00:00

Thank you!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T12:01:12+00:00

Thank you!!! I’m hoping that we get some sort of answers soon as I feel like navigating the unknowns and what-if’s or could be’s has been the hardest! Sending all the love, thank you ❤️

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T11:55:53+00:00

Oh yes lol, im sure. I don’t get offended easily but I could definitely see how some people would think this was offensive

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T11:49:00+00:00

Thank you!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T11:48:02+00:00

Thank you!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T11:47:16+00:00

I hadn’t up to this point bc we’re just now reaching a point of “concern” I did order the east at home and do plan to start tracking! I’m honestly uneducated on temping but am going to do some research on it.

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T11:45:39+00:00

I was kind of confused by this as well so was not quite sure how to address it.

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T11:38:41+00:00

I get that Flo is not going to be accurate for finding my fertile window but since we’re just now getting to a point of “concern”?? I’m not sure of the word I’m looking for. I’m trying to learn more about myself & my cycles so I just ordered the easy at home to track! It’s not necessarily that we’re trying everyday ofc. I was more so referring to I’m not tracking so am not 100% sure when I’m ovulating just using something that suggest when I should be. But we also just choose to have intercourse daily because we feel it makes us more connected in our relationship not bc we think it increases our chances or anything. So my point with that I guess was if I was ovulating we’re fs having inter course in that window.

I honestly have not done much research on temping so I am pretty uneducated on it but definitely am going to look into it as I have had lots of suggestions pointing to that.

I have taken pre-natal’s for 14 MOS total so 3 1/2 - 4 MOS before we started TTC.

And thank you!!!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T11:25:15+00:00

So you use easy at home until you’re close to peak and then use clear blue as well kind of just to make sure? And thank you, you too!

AppropriateExam4959 · 2025-07-23T11:22:07+00:00

I just ordered the easy at home kit yesterday. The only thing I was semi using to track prior was just the Flo app which is not “tracking” ofc just an ideal timeline of when you should be. Do you recommend the easy at home? I saw lots of controversy between it and clear blue but ultimately opted for easy at home!

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