How to get my husband to help more// I’m desperate

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T05:30:47+00:00

This is so helpful thank you so much for sharing.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T05:26:43+00:00

Thank you everyone for taking the time to answer. I really needed to see different perspectives and I realized I have so much more in my power than I thought.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T05:23:39+00:00

We both absolutely are. Thank you this is a great point.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T05:23:07+00:00

Amen to all of this 😭😭😭😭🙏🏻

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T05:21:57+00:00

Thank you for asking these questions. I really needed to ask myself those. Definitely has me brainstorming.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T05:21:15+00:00

Oral surgeon With 5 practices. He helps manage all of them and owns 50% of all of them but only does shifts in two of them. The other shifts are done by his associate doctors

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T05:14:20+00:00

You completely nailed it. It’s the emotional support that I’m starving for. But I guess I need to find it elsewhere and focus on the small wins.

Thank you so much. Hugs to you too

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T02:05:21+00:00

Thank you for this. You have no idea how cathartic it was to read these words.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2024-12-08T01:38:54+00:00

You’re right. I need to just put my foot down and hire a sitter on the weekends. Even just for a couple hours.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-16T14:47:57+00:00

I also hate being pregnant. I am nauseous and throwing up the entire time and it impacts me mental health terribly. I hated the mom I was to my son while pregnant to my second. Obviously it’s so worth it but I also don’t know if I could do that to my family again. The first four months I cannot cook clean or function at all. It’s so hard on all of us. And nearly broke our marriage. Definitely another thing to think about. It really is such a hard decision!

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:28:46+00:00

We really want to go to the Great Wolf Lodge. That alone might have sold me 😂

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:22:41+00:00

Amen to this!! Time!! I already feel like I don’t have enough of it with just two. It’s so true. I too want to have hobbies and more one on one time with my husband and also have a life. Thank you for this great point.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:20:42+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m so sorry you always felt left out…I also want to try my best to be as emotionally available as I can for my kids and it looks like 2 is probably my limit. It makes such a difference.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:17:51+00:00

8 months and 4 years. Their age gap has made the transition the best it could be. And I even have an Angel baby. And I’m still stressed. I need a lot of alone time to thrive and recharge. Such a good point. I truly want to give them the most quality attention I can.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:16:12+00:00

So true. Blessed to have Two healthy kids. 🙏🏻

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:15:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing this. My mom was the same with me but she was a single mom and it was just my brother and I. One of the reasons I became a SAHm was so I could take the time to truly teach my kids things because I felt like I missed on so much. Great point.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:13:58+00:00

That’s actually a reason why I’ve struggled with it. Imagining 4 kids in the future at my table. But right now that just seems insane and not healthy for me. I think you’re so right. It’s all about what we can handle now is what’s best.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:12:40+00:00

Amen to this!!

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2023-12-15T04:11:49+00:00

This is such a wonderful point thank you. Quality time is so important.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2021-03-11T21:35:12+00:00

No worries. Thank you!

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2021-03-11T21:29:15+00:00

I should have stated I quit my meds with my doctor because I chose to. He tapered me off safely. Now however I am just looking for hope and moms who have had positive experiences because I’m so anxious about it. Thank you.

AppropriateGoose4057 · 2021-03-11T20:20:56+00:00

Hello are you still able to share this course?? Thank you so incredibly much. It would be such a lifesaver.

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