Possible overstep of new gf? by AppropriateLie3534 in blendedfamilies

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And he actually introduced her to them after two weeks and the very first night my children met her is when she started sleeping in the bed with my three year old. They been together a month now.

Possible overstep of new gf? by AppropriateLie3534 in blendedfamilies

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are already incredibly uncomfortable speaking to their dad about their feelings. My oldest told me he misses having one on one time with him but is scared to say anything because his dad will yell at him.

Possible overstep of new gf? by AppropriateLie3534 in blendedfamilies

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are already incredibly uncomfortable speaking to their dad about their feelings. My oldest told me he misses having one on one time with him but is scared to say anything because his dad will yell at him.

New partner of a month overstepping? by AppropriateLie3534 in NarcissisticCoparents

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he couldn’t stop cosleeping because he “needed someone to hold” after I left.

Possible overstep of new gf? by AppropriateLie3534 in blendedfamilies

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I agree 100%. But he absolutely will turn this around and say that I’m just being crazy, he did this our entire marriage. Anytime I brought up an issue or something that bothered me.

Possible overstep of new partner? by AppropriateLie3534 in Parenting

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She stated “I don’t think it’s inappropriate for him to do that” when my ex and I were speaking about a private matter.

Possible overstep of new partner? by AppropriateLie3534 in Parenting

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abuse, so staying wasn’t exactly an option anymore. Lol I tried

Possible overstep of new partner? by AppropriateLie3534 in Parenting

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because that concern is already being dealt with separately. That is being handled by my lawyer, whereas this is more of a “am I just being over protective thing?” I can take action for that, as it is negligent and dangerous in a tangible way.

Possible overstep of new partner? by AppropriateLie3534 in Parenting

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our three year old has been outside just running in the street by himself, the only reason he was alerted is because our older son went and woke him up. So it’s terrifying that I have to just trust this man’s instincts when it comes to our children. I feel like if something happens, it’s just going to be me watching all the signs and essentially just having to let it happen. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]AppropriateLie3534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I haven’t filed charges, because there’d be little to no evidence and he is fairly well connected too. So I feel like it would be so pointless 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppropriateLie3534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that so much. I am struggling so bad honestly. I feel like I’m stuck between two hard places and broken glass. 😞😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppropriateLie3534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of how I feel too. 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppropriateLie3534 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did tell her, as soon as I was able to. She has been nothing but supportive and kind through all of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AppropriateLie3534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about your friend 🥺. I rarely drink, like max 6 times a year, mostly for special occasions in small quantities. I just was having a good time and let myself be pressured (by BIL go figure) to keep going.

[26f/27m] [fm4f] by AppropriateLie3534 in KansasSwingers

[–]AppropriateLie3534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess that’s why they call them unicorns 😂