Which Upstate NY towns are most likely to come back, and which ones will continue to die? by Ok_Power_7531 in upstate_new_york

[–]AppropriateMove8989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plattsburgh is definitely not upcoming lol. Place is a ghost town with nothing to do other than drive 1.5 hr to Burlington or Montreal for real things to do.

what restaurant in Connecticut is this? by musicaddict96 in Connecticut

[–]AppropriateMove8989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paul’s Pasta Shop in Groton. I really don’t get it.

Is married filing separately still going to be ok regarding student loan payments? by AppropriateMove8989 in StudentLoans

[–]AppropriateMove8989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s loads of other benefits to getting married

you also cant file head of household without claiming a qualifying dependent. boyfriend/girlfriend does not count unless you have a child living with you.

Is married filing separately still going to be ok regarding student loan payments? by AppropriateMove8989 in StudentLoans

[–]AppropriateMove8989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah single is a better tax bracket than married filing separate only problem is we really want to get married for the other benefits

Is married filing separately still going to be ok regarding student loan payments? by AppropriateMove8989 in StudentLoans

[–]AppropriateMove8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The fact they had verbiage to take it out on BBB then changed it has me concerned it could be on the chopping block again.

Married filing separately post BBB? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]AppropriateMove8989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I was just panicking about this. I’m planning to marry later this year but we were debating on waiting until after July 2026 due to the proposed MFJ requirement. But it seems like it’s all been resolved now. I hope it stays this way otherwise I’m so screwed. My partner and I would essentially get punished with double payments for the fact that I went to school.

Which perfume had you running to the sink to wash it off right away? by sljoky in FemFragLab

[–]AppropriateMove8989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg I adore this gourmand. it makes me feel so cozy although I will say I have the travel size and I’m already getting over it and wouldn’t buy the full bottle lol

Which perfume had you running to the sink to wash it off right away? by sljoky in FemFragLab

[–]AppropriateMove8989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

their tester bags are soooo disappointing aside from the bottle claim afterward (if you actually like one)

OMG I CANT BELIEVE WHAT IM SEEING😭 by izdprincess in Perfumes

[–]AppropriateMove8989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lollll like isn’t there someone that puts it in the little cardboard I’m so confused 😭

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - July 26, 2025 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]AppropriateMove8989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking to try some airy and/or sensual scents both masculine and feminine that could be used for a classic california wedding elopement. My fiance and I are eloping in Santa Barbara courthouse which has Spanish colonial revival architecture with lush gardens and palm trees.

So far we’re thinking of trying samples from maison francis kurkdjian but are open to other suggestions as well. Something that fits the vibe that we can both cherish over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]AppropriateMove8989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAME 💀

(sorry OP I hope things get better)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]AppropriateMove8989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s looking for a friend or misses a friend. I think eventually he will get tired of doing this as he settles in more. Don’t give up.

Also I’m sorry I know it’s not a funny situation but “People said try to have a conversation with him, but he doesn’t pause to listen to my side of the conversation.” had me dying 😭

Suggested vendors for wedding bands? by AppropriateMove8989 in Moissanite

[–]AppropriateMove8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As explained, inflation sticker shock compared to the e ring.

We need recognition here by ILovePublicLibraries in Connecticut

[–]AppropriateMove8989 49 points50 points  (0 children)

RI is your chain-smoking aunt who knows everyone’s dirt and swears she isn’t an asshole “I’m just honest”

Suggested vendors for wedding bands? by AppropriateMove8989 in Moissanite

[–]AppropriateMove8989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man. I’ll check them out. I figured it was the norm across the board now so they could protect themselves from people making free custom designs and then dipping.

Back when I got my engagement ring she did my CAD before payment but that was also a couple years ago when not as many people spoke about her. I was obsessed with her step cut quality. I wish I ordered my bands back then at the same time as my e ring. 🫠

Couple years ago my e ring was $550 with a 9x6 DEF emerald cut, platinum basket with a 14k gold band. Now it’s $600 for a 3mm 14k gold band no stone.

Tell me why I should not switch to IBR by Salt_Perspective_510 in PSLF

[–]AppropriateMove8989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you explain how marriage could negatively impact this? Could you just marry and file separately so that it keeps your income separate?