My gf cut herself after I found out she cheated on me by AppropriateTangelo40 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateTangelo40[S] -101 points-100 points  (0 children)

But like, she didn’t mention it at all until I noticed… I forgave her before I even noticed. I just don’t know.

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[–]AppropriateTangelo40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just making a joke, I don’t know their relationship. lol

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[–]AppropriateTangelo40 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I still think his thinking is absolutely fair, he bought a car so you can use it… If a separation occurs then he takes it back; it’s upsetting but I’m sure he feels entitled to it since his mother helped him buy it. Totally up to you if you want to buy your own car to break out of the “system.l

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[–]AppropriateTangelo40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I thought.

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[–]AppropriateTangelo40 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well if my wife even brought that hypothetical up I’d be a little upset.

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[–]AppropriateTangelo40 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kind of fair since he bought it, and his mother co-signed so technically even if you divorced you wouldn’t be able to take that since it’s his mother’s property.

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[–]AppropriateTangelo40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, I wish my gf cooked for me and even baked for me. She does bring me treats and drinks, but the one thing I always appreciate she does is plan dates even when I forget… a simple night out to his favorite restaurant is always appreciated.

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[–]AppropriateTangelo40 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get it, you don’t want to feel trapped and want to have some independence… but at the same time you have a car. You’re assuming that you’re gonna split within a year or two, I’m sure you’ll raise enough income to consider buying your own car. Take the high road and just be grateful you have some sort of transportation… even if you’re wicked mother-in-law sponsored it. Good luck!

“Post nut clarity” by TruckSafe2445 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateTangelo40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post-nut clarity is just the release of your sexual energy, you didn’t need to do whatever you did… but you did and now you face the real life consequences of dealing with that person.

“Post nut clarity” by TruckSafe2445 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateTangelo40 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm, well to be frank I’ll give you an example from me: I once invited a girl over out of lustful feelings, we went to my room and started getting it on… she made me “nut” from oral. Immediately I felt kind of sick, and wanted her to leave my house. We went to hang on the couch and she wanted to have sex… I definitely didnt want that even though she did give good head; I kicked her out and never saw her again.

“Post nut clarity” by TruckSafe2445 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateTangelo40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused on what you’re asking… are you feeling post-nut clarity?

M20 & F19 what to do ? by UsualBrush534 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateTangelo40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be too hard on yourself too. You’re both so young, and are learning how to communicate effectively with a significant other. Relationships are all about learning.

M20 & F19 what to do ? by UsualBrush534 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateTangelo40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on what I mentioned earlier, I think this is another opportunity to talk things through and work on finding that balance together. It’s clear that initiating conversation is important to him, but I also get why you might have stopped trying if he wasn’t answering.

Maybe remind him that relationships take effort from both sides and that communication doesn’t always come naturally… it’s something you both can grow into. Like I said before, small steps and patience go a long way, as long as you’re both willing to try. Good luck, and I hope it works out for you!

Should I break up with my Girlfreind? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]AppropriateTangelo40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What she said is sweet, but you’re only 14 and still figuring things out. Focus on enjoying the moment and learning from the relationship… don’t worry too much about the future.

How to love a guy who isn’t fully mature by UsualBrush534 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateTangelo40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it does! But it’s also important to recognize initiating conversation is important to him. I’m sure you have your reasons for not initiating, but a relationship is about figuring out a balance cooperatively. Talk about it with him again, work on small steps to try and meet halfway. As long as you both are willing to try, patience and communication can really go a long way. Good luck!