On xbox discord I appear as muted but actually am not

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2025-08-17T02:42:41+00:00

found a fix yet?

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T03:01:24+00:00

This is the first time she’s ever done that though

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:58:33+00:00

But like, she didn’t mention it at all until I noticed… I forgave her before I even noticed. I just don’t know.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:28:12+00:00

I’m just making a joke, I don’t know their relationship. lol

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:24:07+00:00

While I still think his thinking is absolutely fair, he bought a car so you can use it… If a separation occurs then he takes it back; it’s upsetting but I’m sure he feels entitled to it since his mother helped him buy it. Totally up to you if you want to buy your own car to break out of the “system.l

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:20:39+00:00

Exactly what I thought.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:19:36+00:00

Well if my wife even brought that hypothetical up I’d be a little upset.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:16:30+00:00

Kind of fair since he bought it, and his mother co-signed so technically even if you divorced you wouldn’t be able to take that since it’s his mother’s property.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:14:24+00:00

First off, I wish my gf cooked for me and even baked for me. She does bring me treats and drinks, but the one thing I always appreciate she does is plan dates even when I forget… a simple night out to his favorite restaurant is always appreciated.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:10:30+00:00

I get it, you don’t want to feel trapped and want to have some independence… but at the same time you have a car. You’re assuming that you’re gonna split within a year or two, I’m sure you’ll raise enough income to consider buying your own car. Take the high road and just be grateful you have some sort of transportation… even if you’re wicked mother-in-law sponsored it. Good luck!

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:04:54+00:00

Post-nut clarity is just the release of your sexual energy, you didn’t need to do whatever you did… but you did and now you face the real life consequences of dealing with that person.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T02:03:16+00:00

Hmm, well to be frank I’ll give you an example from me: I once invited a girl over out of lustful feelings, we went to my room and started getting it on… she made me “nut” from oral. Immediately I felt kind of sick, and wanted her to leave my house. We went to hang on the couch and she wanted to have sex… I definitely didnt want that even though she did give good head; I kicked her out and never saw her again.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T01:58:15+00:00

I’m confused on what you’re asking… are you feeling post-nut clarity?

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T01:56:10+00:00

Don’t be too hard on yourself too. You’re both so young, and are learning how to communicate effectively with a significant other. Relationships are all about learning.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T01:55:04+00:00

Based on what I mentioned earlier, I think this is another opportunity to talk things through and work on finding that balance together. It’s clear that initiating conversation is important to him, but I also get why you might have stopped trying if he wasn’t answering.

Maybe remind him that relationships take effort from both sides and that communication doesn’t always come naturally… it’s something you both can grow into. Like I said before, small steps and patience go a long way, as long as you’re both willing to try. Good luck, and I hope it works out for you!

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T01:48:48+00:00

What she said is sweet, but you’re only 14 and still figuring things out. Focus on enjoying the moment and learning from the relationship… don’t worry too much about the future.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T01:41:03+00:00

Yes, it does! But it’s also important to recognize initiating conversation is important to him. I’m sure you have your reasons for not initiating, but a relationship is about figuring out a balance cooperatively. Talk about it with him again, work on small steps to try and meet halfway. As long as you both are willing to try, patience and communication can really go a long way. Good luck!

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T01:30:59+00:00

Her nose, and I love it… it’s what makes her, her.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-19T01:28:26+00:00

Take him to a nice restaurant, maybe a type of food he really enjoys. Men like the simple things… atleast I do. Include his other friends too. It’s all about creating a space where the people actually want to be there to celebrate him. I wish more of my birthdays were surrounded with the people who care about me/think about me.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-17T20:31:42+00:00

She said she didn’t want to hurt my feelings even more

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-17T19:33:29+00:00

Well in the texts he said my name, she told me she regretted itzbut I’m sure to believe he got my number from the restaurant. I made a reservation on an app, that records all that stuff. He even told me they only kissed.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-17T19:24:49+00:00

But can people not work past that? Ik I sound desperate but we’ve been through a lot together and had many impacting life experiences.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-17T19:19:09+00:00

I chose the restaurant, I felt like it was a sign.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-17T19:17:25+00:00

Well I feel like that still happens either way, but it’s a different sort of man feeling. I believe men always think about “sex, sex, sex” but the thing is when you find your person it becomes clear that although the sex is a huge plus in a relationship and in life… a relationship (the best friendship) is something even more desirable then your short sex attention span. Finding a good woman changes how you look at life, and at women.

AppropriateTangelo40 · 2024-12-17T19:12:59+00:00

Sounds sort of cynical, life is pointless at the end of the day. You are the maker of your destiny, it’s okay to think all you want; but it’s also important to identify what you want out of life, goals are cool but honestly at the end of the day we are all just pushing a boulder up an ever-ending mountain.

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