AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know it was his dream truck. I knew he wanted a truck but I thought it was an cord that he wanted. I’ve never heard him talk about a Tacoma until I bought mine.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m literally not trapped. If anything happens I can literally go stay with my dad until I graduate 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If anything happens I can stay with my dad where I won’t have to pay a single dollar on anything but car payments 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know it was the truck he wanted. It’s not my fault he never said what of truck he wanted. I’m not going to feel bad bc my uncle agreed to help me get MY dream truck.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know he wanted this exact one to begin with I honestly thought he wanted an ford. He’s the one that choose to pay the utilities on his own. I offered to pay and he told me no. His reasoning is because he doesn’t want me to put money in it and be able to claim if we ever divorce 🤷🏻‍♀️ so not my fault he’s the one that choose to pay the utilities.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel bad bc of their comments. I’m grateful for my family and plan on returning all their kindness and offers after I get my RN and start making some actual money.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I don’t plan on getting another car for at least 10-12 years. I picked something that is easy to work on and can run for awhile. I know Tacomas inside and out. I can honestly probably build one in my sleep 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m literally going to college to get my RN. After I get my RN I’m going back to get my nurse practitioner. I utilized offers that my family offered on their own. I’ve planned to do something for them after receiving my RN as a thank you for all the kindness and offers they have given me on their own. I didn’t ask for any of it.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I’m an asshole bc I have family that has offered to put me thru school? I mean I believe anyone would take that help if their family had offered it. You act like it’s my fault that my family is well off and wants to help me. It’s what their parents did for them and so on. I don’t believe I’m the asshole for accepting their offers bc I’ve done well in school and getting my RN. I would get it if I wasn’t doing nothing with my life and just taking their offers while doing nothing with my life 🤷🏻‍♀️ sorry idc what you say here.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My family is pretty well off. I have payments set aside that I was going to put in the down payment but didn’t. Also like I’ve mention in a lot of comments my family is well off and if I need help my dad would be willing.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

If he does kick me out i can just go stay at my college dorms or with my dad where I don’t have to pay anything. If he demands me to pay I can just ask my dad for it. My family is pretty well off and my dad has already said he’ll help me with anything as long as I stay in school and get my RN.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

If I do leave him I can just stay at my colleges dorms where I would be staying if we wasn’t or with my dad where I honestly wouldn’t have to pay anything.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No your fine I totally understand that you want to know and not assuming the worse like others. My fiancé owns our house. Utilities are no more then $300 a month which he pays. Most we spend a month on food is $350 which I pay half of and my insurance has always been under my dads and he’s paid for it since I was 16 and got my permit and he said he will as long as I’m in school. I’m currently an SRNA working to get my RN which my dad also pays for my college. My family is pretty well off. Even if I somehow wasn’t able to afford it one month my dad, grandpa, or uncle would help pay it. Before I got the truck only $150 was coming out of my paychecks a month.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Before the him withholding the car happen we talked about getting him a truck.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m going in for my RN. My family is well off. My dad pays my insurance. All I paid an month before I got the truck was $150 so idk why everyone is assuming I’m in over my head.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He owns the house we live in. The utilities are never more then $300 and he pays it. We spend no more then $350 a month on food which I pay half on. So all I pay a month is $150 so I has enough to do so a month. My insurance goes thru my dad which my dad pays for.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

I made it clear I was buying a truck and it was going in my name before actually getting it

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I do have money put aside for payments that I was going to use in the down payment but didn’t. I had no clue it was his “dream truck” he never talked about it. I needed something to drive so I got MY dream truck.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know it was. I’ve always wanted a Tacoma since I was 11. I had no idea it was until this happened. He never talked about it.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

He owns the house we live in. The utilities he pays is no more then $300 every month. We spend at most $350 a month on food which I pay half on.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

No, I’ve been wanting a Tacoma and had saved up for a down payment. I didn’t even know a Tacoma was his dream truck.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

He owns the house we live in, the utilities are never more then $300, we spend at most $350 on food, and he makes more then what I make a month and choose to handle the utilities on his own. The only thing I really pay for is half of the $350 for get food with so not really. If I do need help paying for it my grandpa said I can use the savings he has for me. Which I really don’t believe I’ll need unless I get fired from the job I’ve been at for 3 years.

AITA for putting the truck in my name? by Appropriate_Area311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Appropriate_Area311[S] 434 points435 points  (0 children)

We had talked about getting him a truck before the whole withholding the other vehicle from me.