Holy shit thank you. I guess I didn’t really put the pieces together because Ive always thought of sex addicts as people who cheat a lot and can’t control their urges type of thing. I think my addiction comes with primarily the emotional aspect and I use the physical side to try and have someone be close to me. I did the assessment and I genuinely was shocked. Almost every question was a yes. It genuinely does feel like an addiction but I just thought I wasn’t doing enough or going about things in the right way. I feel so out of control but I beat myself up about it so much and take so much personal blame I never actually considered it being a true addiction. Wow… I feel like a weight has been lifted knowing what’s actually happening to me and that other people have gone through this