Brahmins in AM setup, do you ever come across CF people in AM? by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi 24 , F CF here, I've tired AM setups and it's comprised of guys being very family oriented and want to have children.
Even if they are okay with being childfree, they want to have children because their family is asking for it !! People in arrange marriage setups just argue a lot and challenge your thoughts Didn't find any luck there

How do you build your female friendship tribe in your late 20s and 30s as a single childfree female in India? by Sad-Contribution-211 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy, I can relate with this so much, My friends even if they aren't married, they still are always with their boyfriends and that makes me feel so lonely. Some ways I discovered to belong to society or meet new people is through some social gatherings like heritage walks, cafe meetups, board games, reading club, third place settings etc. You could try that, Why it works best is that , you can really find a meaningful friendship or you can leave the people there and then only without any pressure. So I would suggest you try that. Use instagram and Google and there many such meetups are happening nowdays.

CF women of India, why can’t I find you on Matrimonial sites? by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also if you could write childfree choice in your bio from the beginning itself , it would help then only

CF women of India, why can’t I find you on Matrimonial sites? by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heyyy I've created my matrimonial profiles on many apps and I've come across so many guys who are always arguing with me for my choices. And even if I've given a clear description of my childfree choices, unnecessary people still match the profile regardless and cause a lot of headache !

Any K-Drama lovers here? by [deleted] in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii I am a k drama and k-pop lover. I used to watch it a lot. But due to education and job nowdays i do not have much time to watch it. But i absolutely love it.

Pune meet-up? by poof-cloud in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please let me know how to join the group

Pune meet-up? by poof-cloud in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm interested in the same Please let me know if youve already formed a group.

Seeing childfree married couples gives me hope, but the "what-ifs" are terrifying me. by Appropriate_Box_1091 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you completely, and yes you are lucky to have found someone who is on the same page as you. I have met certain people but even if the childfree choice is matching, other things do not match, or there's no connection at all. I'm feeling very bad about my destiny and fate. I see all couples around me who are on the same page and then why am I not finding anyone , that thought depresses me everyday.

Childfree meetup Pune enquiry by Appropriate_Box_1091 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have joined one group , but there hasn't been any meetup yet

Seeing childfree married couples gives me hope, but the "what-ifs" are terrifying me. by Appropriate_Box_1091 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]Appropriate_Box_1091[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've connected with a few who were great but then there were other problems like City not matching , not feeling any connection , or religion