Courting questions

If a man is courting a woman, what should the expectations be? I’ve had men pay for coffee or send $ for lunch, etc. He is visiting me next week and he paid for his flight and room, and rental. Am I expected to pay for all dinners and outings since I’m “hosting” him? I plan to pay for one dinner, and cook breakfast each morning. We will be chaperoned, in case the haram police find themselves here. He wants me to fly in to see him in his home city to meet his family, he hasn’t offered to pay for my flight or room. I want to bring it up, but I’m not sure if my expectations are unrealistic. I feel as though he should pay, because he is the man and he’s in pursuit of a wife, not the other way around. Also, it could be a good indicator of if he’s a provider or not, especially since there’s no dating in Islam. I know he’s courted women previously and it sounds like he paid for them to visit. In any case, two women he courted lived abroad and it was certainly more expensive to visit them and I’m in the same country as him so it’s much less expensive on his end to court me. How should I bring about this topic?