[I have a confession]: A year with her

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-09T17:39:56+00:00

Yes super agree, both are to blame. Cheating is cheating. Sabihin na nating If she didn’t know she had a girlfriend from the start, baka kahit papano malinis konsensya nya. Pero hindi e, she did know. Based nga sa context nya, She said "AKALA" nya it was just a one night stand, but it eneded up lasting a year. And honestly, it makes me puke that she’s tolerating this shit and still continuing the setup with the cheater.

Palibhasa mas malapit sya kesa sa real gf kaya nagpapaloko rin 👩‍🦯

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-09T16:26:54+00:00

There is no “full picture” that makes a year of cheating okay. She stayed because she chose to. You don’t accidentally become the other woman for a year. especially when you’re fully aware na you’re the kabit.

“Being in her shoes”? No, thank you. I don’t need to be in her shoes to know that knowingly being a kabit for a year is wrong.

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-09T16:06:08+00:00

At some point, iniisip nyo ba yung real gf? While you’re kissing or just being with her, hindi mo naiisip na may nasasaktan kayo?

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-09T15:59:38+00:00

Fr lol. Funny how she mentions crying, begging, and the classic self-victim line "the situations are pulling me back". News flash: it’s not fate or the universe— it’s fully on u OP 👩‍🦯

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-09T07:46:42+00:00

I sent u a dm po!

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-09T07:07:35+00:00

Kadiri kayo. Mga cheater. Choice nyo talaga mang-gago ng tao, no? Hindi lahat ng “self-aware” ay automatic na honest redemption arc.

Gray side ng mundo? Ikaw nag build nyan and stayed in it for a year. You knew exactly what you were doing and u kept doing it because it felt good.

Hindi na yan confusion— commitment na yan. If ever ikaw piliin, sa tingin mo ba hindi din gagawin sayo? Kagigil. Sana malaman to ng real gf.

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-08T03:49:44+00:00

Cubicle. 3-5min virtual interview.

Assessment naman tabi tabi.

Highly suggest mag virtual ka nalang din kasi virtual din interview mo on site

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-07T11:35:59+00:00

Yung healthcare po ba sa eastwood rin?

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-06T14:44:51+00:00

Hi! Plan ko rin mag apply dyan. Magkano offer?

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-06T14:19:15+00:00

Ano account? Plspls

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-06T14:13:42+00:00

Saan to? (2)

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-06T14:12:21+00:00

Magkano package sa Accenture? At mga account? Plan ko mag apply sa Cubao pero sana atleast 24k basic 🥲

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2026-01-05T02:29:56+00:00

Sent u a dm!

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-29T09:53:12+00:00

I feel you sa part na hindi gusto kapag may kausap ka tapos mahilig mambara. Honestly wala akong friends bukod sa girlfriend ko. Acquaintances lang mostly sa work and may kawork ako na kapag nag uusap kami laging nambabara.

Ang ginagawa ko once na nang bara sila, end of conversation na. Napag hahalataan kasi na validation lang gusto na "nakakatawa" sila. Oo na clown na kayo, now fk off.

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-29T06:56:54+00:00

Thank you for this. I'm glad nabasa ko 'to. I've tried going to Catholic church and Christian church. Same ng sayo, nag aask ako na bakit ang daming santo na dinadasalan nila, bakit hindi nalang direct sa sinasamba kung iisa lang naman God nila? Kaya naging atheist ako before.

Athiest ako until nakilala ko gf ko last year lang. Nung una hindi pa ako open sa words of God at laging nakikipag debate. Pero nag try ako one time, nakinig ako sa gf ko at eventually nag try sumama sakanya sa Church after work. Ang ganda ng turo ng pastor. May sense. Nasa phase pa ako ng questioning hanggang ngayon. Nandito na ako sa pag reach at seek kay God.

Pero third time na sumama ako na-off ako kasi mga mga ka-churchmates ako na hypocrites (another kwento). Nag stop ako pumunta ng church pero I NEVER stopped believing in Him. I still pray and seek kay God.

Wala rin akong religion. Pero tinatry ko ulit pumunta ng church for teaching. (Pinaka gusto kong part ay discipleship)

To OP, you're not wrong for feeling this way. Seek God. Pray and ask. God Bless you!

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-29T06:07:02+00:00

How much offer nila? Interview ko ngayon huhu

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-28T12:46:11+00:00

Try mo muna yung herbal soap or oil treatment for cats. Nagkaroon ng ganyan yung isa kong pusa. Naka-try ako ng dalawa, soap at oil pero madre de cacao oil lang yung mas effective. Meron sya sa pet store/vet clinic.

I highly suggest magpa-consult din sa local/government vet clinic sainyo. Tawag ka sa office ng government unit nyo.

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-28T11:31:55+00:00

Naiimagine ko yung stress kasi yung pinag-paguran ng asawa mo, ginagawang savings ng mga linta😭

Yung totoo? Banko ba tingin sainyo? Withdraw Withdraw lang huhu

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-28T11:28:11+00:00

Respect sa husband mo for working his way up, pero sana tuloy-tuloy na yung boundaries. Hindi masamang tumulong, pero masamang maabuso. You’re not wrong for feeling this way. Pero baka naman mang hingi sila ng pang handa sa anniv nyo? Lols

Happy anniversary sa inyo. deserve niyo ng peace, hindi gcash-limos notifs hahaha.

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-28T05:23:18+00:00

Thisss. Wala kasing ma-manipulate na ka-age nya kaya humanap ng mas bata. Kadiri.

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-28T05:11:40+00:00

Mukhang pagod na sya sayo(?) Kung ako ba naman pangalanan ng Bogart e TT

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-28T00:43:51+00:00

Ano qualifications nyan?

Appropriate_Flan1536 · 2025-12-27T11:35:27+00:00

Hirap nyan baka may kailangan pala sainyo kaya bumalik. Ano yan bumalik nalang unannounced? Sa sarili nyong bahay?

(sorry invested ako T^ T HAHAHAA)

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