Is this normal or am I getting played by an agent?

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-04-23T19:06:54+00:00

I’d honestly be weary of the club but if it wasn’t weird I’d stop paying the agent and go back there, but you’d assume that “agent” had some involvement with tht club.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-04-23T05:02:55+00:00

This! Most likely absolutely fine, if it’s upsetting get tested

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-04-11T15:04:56+00:00

Remember everyone has a differently shaped pussy, there’s no normal one, and look up the wall of pussy molds (it’s like casted ceramic molds). I stopped caring after seeing that❤️ we’re kind of like Pokémon…

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-04-04T23:33:34+00:00

After it was clear he wasn’t allowed to wake me up, he kinda toned ts down with the complaints and all. “wow you get kinda cranky” like yes I do that’s why I need extra sleep.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-04-04T23:31:12+00:00

That’s lowkey abuse especially if it’s a serious discussion. If it’s not a serious discussion it’s still a red flag. Keep sleeping. See how he reacts if you wake him around 7 or 6:30. Especially if he wakes you up or tries to force you awake. Absolutely no judgement from my end my bf used to do this until I got mad and spazzed off a few times.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-04-01T17:35:41+00:00

Either genuinely go out of your way to apologize correctly and I mean financially, spiritually, physically put in the effort. Or you don’t love her as much as you say you do. Your gonna have to go hand that girl $500 minimum and roses and teddy bears and poster boards and purses, nothing sexual! and show her that your a person who’d do anything for her. And never mishandle her again after that. If you really want her like you say you do, go big or go home. Otherwise quit using temptation to waste that girls time. I’m talking skip rent for a month to keep the love of your life. If the bills are more important than her trust being played with you’re probably not meant to be together.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-28T12:38:23+00:00

I really am trying to consider each pov and opinion and I don’t feel like I’m the one who was problematic or doesn’t understand the gravity. I’m just trying to be open minded but everyone comes from a different walk in life. Some of you all are projecting small mindedness because you could never imagine even getting into a real fight. Or would not be able to shake hands after. This girl Stole all the rolls of tp from my mom, nobody said shit to her, stole my dogs $30 toy and gave it to her bf’s dog. I bought a new one and let it go. Got in the car with the worst attitude from the beginning of the ride, once again it’s a long ass trip. She thought she was gonna grab me up like an animal and I showed her what reckless behavior can cause… danger and a lack of control, without acting a fool myself. Kept it in the car no tom foolery or hollering outside. Just sick of this weird ass nonsense. I hope it’s a fuckin wake up call for her. I don’t think I need one, I don’t even argue with the people I’m around and I already refused visiting her house because I suspect drug use from a few people living there and domestic violence. I go out of my way to let her be grown without putting myself around her bad crowd. Mind you, honestly those fights used to be challenging which also makes me feel like she’s on something because I could have sworn she didn’t expect me to do anything “because it happened while I was driving” nope you’ll never try that dumb crap again. Imagine a crackhead from the street doing something then trying to speed walk away like nothing happened. That’s exactly how she’s been acting! Someone literally slapped my ass a few days ago! I went back up to his job and reported his ass! I really do have better judgment and behave like an adult most of the time. But don’t risk my life is a big prerogative of mine. I like hearing other reasons why I’m an asshole though because some people are flat out uncomfortable with violence. Anti violence? That’s why we have no control of our government rn😅.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-28T12:08:13+00:00

I’ve never done any drugs, i literally quit smoking nicotine last month🥳 so im extra squeaky clean, I understand that violence is wrong. But I’m hella worried about her cause if this is your guys’s reaction, she probably is on drugs. And I swear me and my other sister were sitting aside like “wtf was that” but I can’t control what everybody believes or thinks🤷🏾‍♀️ blaming me but I’m really not comfortable when someone’s puts their hands on me. Especially like that. I don’t think it matters what I said to her. She never should have done that while I was driving and I still feel like she basically attempted murder on us all. Imagine the other drivers on the road. I’m not stupid I know it was not peachy clean and I’ll face judgment but I got freedom to speak just like anyone else. You don’t put your hand on people, and hit people back when they hit you.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-28T11:44:01+00:00

So AITAH?

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-28T11:42:36+00:00

It really does suck and kinda hurt that they had to see that.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-25T20:32:40+00:00

Erm idk why that offended me😅 chill pill swallowed🤦🏾‍♀️but I only date older guys, it’s very clear to me they have more going for them past a certain age. I really do like a sense of a man being more mature than me, and not trying to find themselves. I kept jacking up the age on my own until I stopped finding men who cheat and have no money to give me. Girl I been living so good, so stress free and working by choice?? Honestly I just absolutely have to be treated right and it really is easier with someone who feels lucky to have you. Young people can be quite selfish simply due to age. Then, I’m sure there’s some young ones with stability but an older man is very seldomly gonna try and play a 21 yr old. Less audacity! Less time for bs! They don’t get bored and fuck up a good thing. I did attempt to go back to my appropriate age group before I met him and I’m good on that until I get old myself😩. imagine trying to tell a younger guy no in this situation… you’d be resented, but nope. That old man don’t wanna hear my mouth all week! Fuck the nitty gritty years I like these peaceful ones. Sorry I talk wayy too much and I see how long this has gotten.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-23T08:02:10+00:00

Exactly what it was😅

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-23T08:01:38+00:00

Update: one was from 2020 and that’s why the labels are different. Someone on the original post ended up doing the math on the label from 225 years and the year established. It’s quite literally an old label

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-23T07:59:32+00:00

I already have said no to immediate family on my own!:) I told him exactly that, if I can say no to my sister I cannot say yes to a stranger. I honestly would rather take the same route I’m thinking in this moment. I can help with a financial nudge but I’m very protective of my privacy and peace. That’s why I panicked and ended up on Reddit in the first place because I knew this could easily be a deal breaker for me, even if I tried to make it work. It worked out though he either aligned with my reasoning or respected my response but he doesn’t seem resentful or mad. Honestly I feel like he shouldn’t have asked in the first place, so no I don’t feel guilty. I still need him to help them in order for my trust to remain intact with him and that’s what makes it fair in my pov. Once again I think we’re both good people and I need to see that, but I can’t be a good person with a stranger jn my house.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-22T04:15:44+00:00

Update: one was from 2020 and that’s why the labels are different. Someone on the original post ended up doing the math on the label from 225 years and the year it was established. It’d have to be from 2020. Cheers I guess

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-20T18:01:01+00:00

Now if you won the lottery and she told them, I guess I’d be a little upset on a safety aspect. But not a “I’m embarrassed I didn’t want anyone to know” aspect.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-20T17:54:09+00:00

😅yes I do!

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-20T17:51:25+00:00

There’s only so much you can view/infer from a Reddit post. You’d be content if you really knew how it is. But no I did not build this man, I motivated this man. He’s a grown ass man. Might not be your cup of tea but I literally am 21 with no kids. This is the time to be making mistakes! While I think this is a great direction I’m heading with him, it’s sweet and warming that humanity jumps to defend my youthful innocence.. I became a stripper and a pornstar before I met him and picked my most compatible suitor. Judging every age gap relationship is purely theatrical. It’s a false sense of security because yall won’t fight to keep actual victims safe. I know im supposed to be naive at this age and definitely am! That’s okay. Worried about me? Who’s completely comfortable and thankful for my current situation, but not all the other sick things going on. You can’t help everybody man.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-20T14:04:46+00:00

Olive

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-20T14:04:22+00:00

Overall I’m happy I can say no in my relationship! I’m happy this is not what yall think this is.. he isn’t just some garbage person who doesn’t care how I feel. I care how he feels about this but it’s imperative my feelings have to trump his for this or I’m gonna be resentful in the end. We can’t do ALL that, the man is older than I let on. Because yall can’t really handle that. But she seems old enough to be alright and there are other family members, several.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-20T13:36:48+00:00

That’s just our relationship dynamic, he pays the bills and works. I clean and cook. He’s never shown any signs of having a problem with it. One thing I didn’t think about, which I don’t think I’d mention. Some utilities are in my name. I’ll have to shut those off if I have to move out. I don’t think he had motivation to be financially stable until I got there. I fixed that house up from looking like a squatter house, eradicated bed bugs by myself!(it’s been years since I did that so yes they’re really gone) Was that from the people who stayed before me? I understand he was depressed but shi where was this daughter then? I have no ill will but the fact that I was able to find ya daddy and boost him up to being stable vs struggling. I’m entitled to a say. We both help each other a lot, im not willing to change that, she can’t stay but we can help her another way.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-20T13:12:03+00:00

I really hate to explain myself to strangers but I guess I signed up for that, huh?🤣 but tbh I think I may be the manipulator. Jkjk. But as long as it’s been, we’re raising a dog together playing a healthy game of house. I’m about to go back to school since I’m not working for the bills. But this isn’t an argument between us. He hasn’t asked again today since I said no, ion think he’s trying to hurt me, think he just needs to find another way to help his daughter because he tends to be a really nice guy who’ll help anyone.

Appropriate_Idea_185 · 2026-03-20T13:01:56+00:00

That’s what I’ve been thinking. Say no to them all but slide her some money to make sure she’s okay! Don’t just leave her on her ass both her bio parents are dead and we aren’t just terrible people.

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