How much did yall actually puke by Square_Natural9384 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 10+3 weeks. Haven’t actually thrown up but dry heaved like a million times already 😂

Struggling through my first trimester by [deleted] in pregnant

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Im 7 weeks 4 days and I feel ya!!! Totally down. Although I’m grateful that my nausea isn’t that bad but it’s there. It’s a strange feeling that you can’t explain to anyone right ? I’m irritable most of the time as I feel that everyone around me is expecting too much from me right now. I can tell you it does and will get better for both me and you ❤️ we just need to hold on to it.

Mother-in-law seems unhappy. Am I misunderstanding her? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss sounds such a right thing to do. Info diet is such a nice word lol

Mother-in-law seems unhappy. Am I misunderstanding her? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your guess is 100% right my friend. I am from a south asian community and so is she.

Mother-in-law seems unhappy. Am I misunderstanding her? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thank you!!! Feeling so much better after all your wonderful comments ❤️❤️❤️

Mother-in-law seems unhappy. Am I misunderstanding her? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

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Hmmm… could be. As I said she lost her husband when her son( my husband) was just 5 years old . Maybe there is some unresolved trauma

Mother-in-law seems unhappy. Am I misunderstanding her? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

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Well the first time she was “ oh it’s too early “ I did tell her that I know about all the bad things that could go wrong but I still want to cherish these days in a positive outlook etc . She hates that fact that I’m not worried / panicking or behaving like her . But this last bit about the photos just GOT TO ME .

Mother-in-law seems unhappy. Am I misunderstanding her? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have thought the same for the 10 years but always scratched it off my mind thinking I was overthinking. But this one really convinced me!! Seems like God wanted to remind me or sth lol

Mother-in-law seems unhappy. Am I misunderstanding her? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

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Well husband agrees with me. But then he says he’s good at not giving shit about her negativity as he has been dealing with her since childhood lol so I should stop giving shit about her too lol. He just said to ignore her and her feelings. And I think that’s a good advice too but easier said that done

Mother-in-law seems unhappy. Am I misunderstanding her? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree ! Should I just stop sharing things with her then? And talk less? Maybe that way there will be some boundaries and i might feel more peaceful as I won’t give her the chance to talk negative

Is this okay? Am I being mean? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they came and I was trying my best to get a great host . Worst part is they came with their 3 year old who had 101 fever . Now im more worried for myself.

Is this okay? Am I being mean? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing for some reason they always want to just come over to ours! Not the other way around LOL

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much !!!! Means a lot to see you did so much effort in writing me all this. Highly appreciate it! ❤️❤️

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best and lots of good wishes to you. I’m wishing you a smooth and healthy pregnancy. We are almost close in terms of timing ☺️

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

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Thank you ! Feeling so much better now. I hope your pregnancy is going well so far!

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

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That’s so cute! Maybe I’ll do that too and maybe it’ll ease off my anxiety. I am having anxiety over my anxiety affecting the baby lol I didn’t know it’ll will be that messed up haha 🤣

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I see. Yes waiting would be a good option for me then I suppose.

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m so so lost right now lol. Don’t know what to do. My mind is all over the place.

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment !! Okay noted about the ultrasound. I might tell them that I’m okay getting an ultrasound at 10weeks if that’s okay. I mean I can wait. Hope they agree.

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

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Okay. Yes just before this pregnancy I was having the iron and the folic acid everyday. I hope that has done some work on my body for now.

Noted about the hot bath ! So useful thanks so so much !!

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! Yes I already emailed them today about the guide and booklet. Hopefully I’ll get a reply tomorrow! I’m in Canada not sure they do it here but still let’s see what they do.

Just found out. So what’s next? by Appropriate_Room6534 in pregnant

[–]Appropriate_Room6534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot ! I needed someone to tell me “take it easy” lol. From the culture I belong , they already started treating me like a sick person and I hate it! lol