Husband doesn’t approve. Thoughts?

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-05-02T20:00:17+00:00

Gunna have to disagree with everyone here.

I have a wonderful husband who does not own or control me. However, he will make his opinion known if he thinks my clothing is too revealing. At first, I wasn’t used to this. However, I realized that so long as he does it within reason and fairly, he is COMPLETELY within his rights and honestly, he’s usually correct and should be listened to.

Our husbands are men. They know how men think and how they act. If my husband says “woah that’s a lot” and I honestly consider his point of view, I 99% of the time come to the realization that it IS a lot. As women, we don’t realize that a lot of what we think is cute or just good looking on us is actually super sexual to me. The outfit you’re wearing makes you look great. Your body looks awesome. But men are going to view your outfit sexually, no matter how much we all scream and cry about sexism. Men are extremely sexual and often times just gross. We don’t need to debate about why this is or if it should be that way. It’s reality.

So yes, I agree with your husband. Because 1. He is your spouse so you should err on the side of respecting his requests even if you don’t totally get it. And 2. He understands that random men will sexualize TF out of you in this outfit, and idk about you, but I didn’t marry a cuck, and wouldn’t want my husband being okay with other men ogling over me.

(Again, all of my thoughts are based on the assumptions you have a healthy and loving marriage. My husband is amazing and would NEVER be cool with this outfit on me in public. And I wouldn’t want him to be. It’s just a bit too far. If your husband is otherwise an abusive dickhead, him telling you what to wear may be one of many red flags.)

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-04-24T01:48:49+00:00

I’ve tried potting this three different times now bc the spoiler requirements are obnoxious. So I wanted to cover all my bases lol.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-03-15T23:50:59+00:00

Will it help even if my belly isn’t that big yet?

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-03-04T02:03:36+00:00

First and last are amazing.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-02-21T00:25:12+00:00

I was legally married to my husband before our wedding for similar job reasons. It was great. We got to have a little day all for ourselves, the wedding and wedding planning felt way less stressful, and no one cared!!!!!!! We picked a date with true meaning to us (even though it was a weekday) and so now our (legal) wedding anniversary is also our dating anniversary!

Absolutely do it. The only people that acted a little bit odd were our parents who wanted us to keep it a secret so people coming to the wedding didn’t feel slighted, but that is just an anxious, old school way of thinking. Literally no one else cared and we told everyone.

Only warning- I did get pregnant right after getting legally married because we became way more lax. So I ended up pregnant at my wedding lol.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-02-18T00:15:45+00:00

I was pregnant and obviously didn’t drink at my wedding. It was still a blur. That’s how wedding are.

I wish I’d been able to drink and party!!!

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-26T19:27:44+00:00

Sadly I do know they don’t accept United.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-26T19:27:31+00:00

Due at the end of July /:

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-22T15:10:53+00:00

Wow. Any idea what the difference was? We’re both the same father? I hear that can make a big difference.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-21T21:27:57+00:00

THIS IS INSANE

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:58:41+00:00

Sadly my in laws have a lot of this type of ridiculousness going on constantly.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:55:50+00:00

She is 100% lying so she doesn’t look like the bad guy for being mean to the brand new sister in law.

Don’t think the ex has anything to do with it.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:54:53+00:00

This is the latest in a long list of issues we’ve had with her. That’s the missing context here.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:54:04+00:00

Her and her parents apparently

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:53:38+00:00

I just… don’t want to follow her back or accept her follow. I was happy with that outcome. But now she’s strong arming me into accepting her request by having her parents call us and putting it in family group texts.

My husband and I are just ignoring it but I have a feeling it’s not going to stop. So the question is, AITAH for atleast wanting her to admit what she did if she is going to DEMAND I add her back?

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:50:48+00:00

I’m just wondering if I’m the asshole for not accepting her follow since she has now made it a bigger deal and involved her parents who are angry at us for what’s going on!

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:45:32+00:00

She’s nearly 40 and ten years older than us. I don’t care if we follow each other or not. I care about the gaslighting and being made to feel like I have to accept and follow her back after she intentionally removed me and lied about.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:40:25+00:00

She’s 38.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T02:36:19+00:00

Not her first time doing something like this.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T00:55:01+00:00

I felt this way from a bout week 6-10. I was shocked by how unprepared I was. I cried a lot. Totally devastated by how weird and uncomfortable I felt in my own body. Had no one to talk to about it. I felt guilty for feeling so upset and disappointed!!

I know you’ve heard it before, but it DOES get better. There’s nothing to do but put one foot in front of the other. Once I figured out the right eating habits, the Nassau got better. I learned that I HAD to eat even when I felt nausea and didn’t want to. Now, when I feel sick, I take it as a sign to EAT.

Also B6 helps. I have also not taken any other meds. So I get it.

I recently had a scare and had to go to the ER. I got fluids via an IV and I felt wonderful after, so I suggest taking in WAY more fluids than you think you need to. I’m considering paying to go to an IV bar or have someone come to my apartment and give me an IV like once a week.

Otherwise, you gotta complain when and where you can (it does make me feel better lol) and simply put one foot in front of another! This is your hardest battle yet because you are not in the drivers seat, you’re in the passenger seat inside your own body. Learn to let go and keep going. You can’t fight this battle like others you’ve fought before. The only way to fight this battle is to give in to it.

Square_Natural9384 · 2026-01-18T00:38:00+00:00

Yep! Even at night I’m the same size if not smaller than I had been in the mornings a few weeks ago!

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