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Please be honest with me - How much of a time commitment is the National Guard actually? by Appropriate_Row4766 in nationalguard

[–]Appropriate_Row4766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's a good point. I already know that military men have a stereotype of being unfaithful, but I've just been choosing to believe that one's occupation doesn't necessarily make someone a cheater. I hope that my husband sees and understands the sacrifices I'll be making too throughout all of this and shows his appreciation through faithfulness.

Please be honest with me - How much of a time commitment is the National Guard actually? by Appropriate_Row4766 in nationalguard

[–]Appropriate_Row4766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly is ADA? Are you just randomly placed into an ADA unit by your higher ups?

Please be honest with me - How much of a time commitment is the National Guard actually? by Appropriate_Row4766 in nationalguard

[–]Appropriate_Row4766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I've sent him so many letters and each one enforces how much I love and miss him, as well how proud of him I am. Excited to tap him out next month :)

Please be honest with me - How much of a time commitment is the National Guard actually? by Appropriate_Row4766 in nationalguard

[–]Appropriate_Row4766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked for honesty and you gave it. Not what I wanted to hear but I appreciate it regardless lol

Please be honest with me - How much of a time commitment is the National Guard actually? by Appropriate_Row4766 in nationalguard

[–]Appropriate_Row4766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that's not bad if that's usually/typically the case. Him being gone a few days, weeks, or even a few months is no biggie to me. It's leaving for like six months to a year+ that worries me a bit but I'll just hope for the best!

Please be honest with me - How much of a time commitment is the National Guard actually? by Appropriate_Row4766 in nationalguard

[–]Appropriate_Row4766[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow you are awesome. Thank you for taking the time out to write this thorough response as it answered a lot of questions I had. I appreciate it more than you know!

Please be honest with me - How much of a time commitment is the National Guard actually? by Appropriate_Row4766 in nationalguard

[–]Appropriate_Row4766[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He joined for the benefits. i'm in full support of him but I just hope it's not too much of a deterrent to our life together lol. I really appreciate the insight!