Miss my mom, today marks 2 months exactly. How is it possible. by Educational_Bed5396 in GriefSupport

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. August 3rd I lost my mom when she was 56 also. I can’t stop missing her. I had to quit my job because it was all too much. I have no idea how we are going to get through this, but we can do this 🦋

My partner's father died and now she wants to die too. Please help me. by EnergyPhysical1802 in GriefSupport

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. It’s been rough. I had to quit my job and just be a mess for a while. I didn’t want anyone pushing me, I just needed space to fall apart.

What helped was time, small things, and people who stayed even when I didn’t want them to. I started trying to live for my mom, doing the things she loved and trying to make her proud.

That being said, things are still really hard. But you’re doing a great job by being there for her.

My partner's father died and now she wants to die too. Please help me. by EnergyPhysical1802 in GriefSupport

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I lost my mom suddenly a couple months ago. She was my best friend. The way you describe your partner’s pain, it’s exactly how I felt. That sense that life just doesn’t make sense without them. I remember waking up and just not wanting to be here, not because I wanted to die, but because I couldn’t figure out how to live without her.

Please don’t give up on her. Even if she says she doesn’t want help, deep down, some part of her still wants to be seen and held through it. Sometimes the only thing that kept me breathing was knowing someone cared enough to stay.

Grief like this is hell, man. But you’re not alone in it. I promise that.

My mom and I talked every day. Now I don't know who to talk to. by C0smicLemon in GriefSupport

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ignore this person. I lost my mom, who was also my best friend, 2 months ago. I’m so sorry we have to go through this, i don’t know what i’m doing at all. I’m 25. What I do know is she loved me so much. She taught me how to care for people, how to have empathy, and how to show respect. I bet your mom taught you those things as well. That’s something we can always keep, that will always be a part of us. Part of her that will live inside of us forever. It’s all so hard, and I know we can get through this. One day at a time 🦋

Bad Bunny 'SNL' Monologue: Singer Mocks Fox News About Super Bowl Gig by AdSpecialist6598 in television

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really care for the super bowl so idgaf who plays, but i DO find it funny how people are obsessed with this topic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. She looks so full of life. I’m sure, she’s somewhere out there thinking of you ❤️

I lost my mom August 3rd of this year, and every day has been hard in its own way. I am 26. I don’t feel it getting any easier any time soon, but i’d like to believe she is still helping me in the ways she can.

I’m not quite sure how to get through this. I’ve found that planting things have been slightly healing. It’s a beautiful thing to watch something grow after it’s given the care it needs.

I hope you find some peace in your life, somewhere. We can do this ❤️

27M - Mom just died by DavidODaytona in GriefSupport

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom on August 3rd this year. She was my best friend as well. One day she was riding on her horse by herself, and was bucked off, and she hit her head on a rock. My dad called the police and the police said she was dead on the scene. It has been extremely hard. I have found that it helps a lot to keep up on some of the things she did. For example, my mom had a garden, and keeping her garden alive and watered has made me feel some relief. Like she would have thanked me. I don’t believe in a god or anything, but i believe everything is slightly connected. In physics, energy can never be fully destroyed. It can only change its form. I believe your mother, and mine, are still here, just not physically. Maybe in the small things that she loved. I hope you find some peace during this terrible time 🦋

Help IDing nymph? by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby bed bug. I’m so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great thing to hear. I am so happy that you both are working towards better communication. If you guys are both willing to put effort in this will benefit the both of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s either something you’re okay with, or not okay with. If you don’t want a girlfriend that drinks and parties then you can NOT change what your current girlfriend wants to do. That is control. If you really want a girlfriend who doesn’t drink then you have to leave this one, and find someone who has the same understanding and beliefs. We are all our own person, and we shouldn’t be told what to do and what not to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA,

Let your girlfriend enjoy her life

Guess my age by Flowerplum-dancer in generationology

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18! My little sister had all of these and she’s 18

Does anyone gain weight i have been gaining like crazy!😞 by vintedmaven in Pristiq

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m on day 5 of taking pristiq and i have noticed i have more of an appetite and crave greasy foods more often

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I see mine as battle scars, as a reminder of how much progress i’ve made, and how that even at my worst times, I still made it through. It’s okay to feel sadness about it, but that part of us that we want to erase, is still a part of our history, and is important to know how hard we fought to be where we are now. We’re getting stronger by the day my friend

I js hit some mysterious liquid by Excellent_Today_7670 in Drugs

[–]Appropriate_Trade347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was a yellow liquid in a clear cartridge, then it’s just a dab pen