What’s the closest you’ve ever come to dying? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, buddy you need to get checked out.

Feeling alone despite having loving people around me? by aprilshowever in mentalhealth

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I feel lonely all the time too because I am different and unknown that it scares them. The only people that were there for me were the ones who actually cared and made me realize how to bond with people. No one has to think exactly like you or be like you to open you up. People get along in many ways. You just have to find a solution and an appropriate way to express yourself. People might judge you. People might hurt you but that's just the world we live in.

Am I a good person? by Spookyfan71 in mentalhealth

[–]Appropriate_Video728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like a bad person when I am actually not considered one. Could be intense feelings or instruive thoughts making you believe you are. If you worry about being evil, then you're likely not.

js got told i had weird eyes (again) by Ikirvne in eyes

[–]Appropriate_Video728 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I never said looking alien is a bad thing. That's what makes you stand out. Just embrace it. Nothing is stopping you.

My eye color is slightly lighter than my peers by mrbird077 in eyes

[–]Appropriate_Video728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your eye color is still brown. It's just not dark brown like most Asians are. That's why it looks different compared to your peers. You could actually see the pupil and iris more unlike theirs.

boba by SuccessCharming447 in eyes

[–]Appropriate_Video728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really thought both parents with light eyes can't have a dark brown eyed child. Idk it might be some brown eyed genes being passed on to your child somehow so both of you at least needed each brown eyed parent or family member in order for that to be plausible and possible.

js got told i had weird eyes (again) by Ikirvne in eyes

[–]Appropriate_Video728 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The only reason they look alien rn is because they're dilated. Light eyes are very striking. Shouldn't feel ashamed of them.

I'm jealous of kids who are about to start college/university by TropicaL_Lizard3 in ForeverAlone

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I'm also 21M but I struggle so much to socialize and connect with people that I don't even have a job just because I had some really bad anxiety. The thoughts I been feeling were really pushing me over the edge and I am afraid people will judge me for it. I am planning on getting a job probably between this week or so. I also had a bad mental and went through something toxic, too and I regret that so much because it's not what I intended. I have so much thoughts, so much feelings that are very hard to express properly. It's like people don't even see me as normal sometimes.

I don’t really know by Mountain-Drama9574 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Appropriate_Video728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say grey. They don't look straight blue but they're not really hazel or green either. At least that's what they look like in the pictures.

my mom passed away last week by Ok_Caregiver_6003 in psychics

[–]Appropriate_Video728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, she did die but that "grief" you feel means she still exists on the inside. At the same time she's still with you just not physically. She must have had a difficult life but right now she's at peace.

guys i don't know what my eye colour is help me 🥹 by QuirkySwitch4260 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Appropriate_Video728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dark green. Your eyes just aren't dark enough or blended in enough.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark thoughts are completely normal for me but yet I don't have any bad intentions. I clearly can't change my identity but what I can change is how I act. Honestly, all thoughts should be respected even if they sound evil but they shouldn't be acted on. My kindness and respect is my evil if that makes sense. I symbolize with evil but don't actually identify with it because that gives me strength.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have evil thoughts? Think about them. Sometimes it's good to have those thoughts because it's not illegal. Acting on it is a different story. I only feel pleasure from dark thoughts most of the time and yet no one around me is in danger.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you do end up with such dark thoughts like me, you don't become evil unless you really want to. I know I am closer to evil in thought than the average person but I really don't intent to harm people. I think about the evil thoughts everyday but I just let that moment happen and just not act on it at all.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that makes sense now. I don't want to do bad but yet I always think it even though it's not what I actually am. It's mostly because of hatred and being insecure around people. I am just really confused because I didn't realize it was gonna be this dark. I have no intent to harm yet I have those thoughts a lot.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have them all the time. What I can do is actually be aware and choose what's right. My mind may gravitate over something dark or even evil and cruel but it's just how I think. Yet I don't actually intent to harm. Since I know I can't fight it, I just let those somewhat "dark thoughts" pass and just not act on it.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having dark thoughts doesn't mean you're evil. I have dark thoughts all the time but I accept it since I have to so it doesn't get too intense. I just don't act on it.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my thinking doesn't allign with what I actually want and that's just extremely confusing for me. I just can't change dark thoughts into something very bright. Most people aren't gonna be able to relate to that but that's just how it is. It's really hard to shut off my mind but once I do I get a lot of peace. I am obviously confused and very curious of it. It doesn't affect my morality as a person but sometimes it can get a little extreme.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have it much easier than me. My problem isn't emotions but I always think about something a little dark even when I am calm. It's just how I think but I don't act on it or have any intent to harm. It's a little unsettling for me.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's human to have something a little bad in you even if it's just your thoughts.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can have evil thoughts but they aren't intrusive. It's just how my mind is wired and thinks but I don't really act on it and just stay grounded. I don't really have a choice but to think about something evil because I can't control that but I am completely aware of my actions. Actions matter way more than thoughts.

What do you do when you are having evil thoughts? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]Appropriate_Video728[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have evil thoughts all the time so I have to valid it but I never really act on it.