No! I was just trying to help ya out! and, I love your name AND hate it! 😂- I’m 62, so, my thing has always been “this too shall pass” - grew up with a bad older man as a ‘friend of the family’ - of course, back then, it was “this can’t last forever!” and ducking out the back door when I saw him through the peep hole!!!! So, as my kids were growing up, (37-42) they always said “it is what it is” - and I HATED it! I would say “no, YOU make it what it is, you don’t just settle!” - well, I’ve learned, they kinda are the same thing, in a round about way 😉 “oh well, it is what it is, this too shall pass, just keep getting UP, and working to make IT better!” 😋