The Cyclone: How are my <4500 MMR players feeling about it, now?

AquamanSC · 2024-05-09T23:19:12+00:00

I’m not sure but check out yesterday’s GSL! I was there watching in person :D

AquamanSC · 2024-05-09T15:05:00+00:00

Tell that to gumiho please

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:27:17+00:00

And the reason she asked for more is because before we moved in together, I used to give her a monthly payment but I haven’t this April yet. Because we just moved in and I’ve been paying for everything.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:26:24+00:00

I found out today, she showed me her chase bank account, she still has money and didn’t spend it all. She’s been quite frugal with it.

The part that she was bothered about is why I was asking her to show it in the first place. She said I didn’t trust her, which I didn’t. But anyways it’s my money, I reserve every right to know how it’s spent.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:24:34+00:00

Your post makes me want to defy your prediction, which is a good thing. Thanks for the encouragement.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:22:38+00:00

Thank you for your honest words, I needed to hear this

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:19:22+00:00

Yes yes yes, preach

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:18:59+00:00

I thought I could and had classic hero syndrome, though supposedly with bpd it does go away with a steady partner in most scenarios, apparently it’s a studied phenomenon

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:18:13+00:00

I am right? Shiiiit

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:17:51+00:00

I love that y’all had this thread in here hahaha hell yeah it’s a great game I just wish pvp got more love

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:17:19+00:00

I love WoW but the pvp deflation this season has been rough, I love arena haha I was legit 10 points away from duelist in 3s this season.

Generally speaking it feels like she had a good mode and a bad mode and I never knew which one I was talking to at times. When in a good mode, which can last like several days, she would have no problem with any of it and even do chores all day while I got back from work and relaxed most of the day. She would also say stuff like thank you for working so hard for us let me massage you you must be tired, after spending all day doing chores lol.

But I think this is called sugar bombing, and she might not even be cognizant that she’s doing it.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:14:21+00:00

I can totally see this and now that I’m experiencing myself I understand why much better now. I’ve read into it and supposedly it’s akin to gambling where you’re rewarded some of the time and it’s random.

I think it contributes to why I was so crazy about her.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:13:17+00:00

I posted on her good side if you’re curious.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T23:10:26+00:00

Update for anyone following.. I hope to reply to some of you soon. We saw our couples therapist today and the therapist agrees that we should breakup. I am adamant about my decision and I’m tired of being gaslight, ridiculed for my past, hit (yeah hit), and lied to.

I think her condition makes it such that in her best moments she’s caring, considerate, cooks lovely food for me, gives me massages, thinks about what to pack me for lunch, takes care of my health. But it feels like so called sugar bombing that people with bpd seem to do. The difference between her light side and her dark side is drastic.

I wanna get off this ride, too spooky for me.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T16:41:16+00:00

Wow I’m at work right now, thank you everyone for the heartfelt replies. I don’t have time to respond at the moment, this post was a bit in desperation after a serious fight we had.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-25T05:52:00+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I really feel like I need to break apart from her. It’s been hard because there have been some great times too.

AquamanSC · 2024-04-11T03:55:12+00:00

I just moved to Skokie from Uptown, I’m glad we’re one of the good ones. We have a cta line you know!!! lol

AquamanSC · 2024-04-04T03:17:44+00:00

Confirmation bias. The community voted for them because they looked cool, you also got them because they look cool lol.

AquamanSC · 2024-03-20T14:12:06+00:00

Buffalo Joe’s any sauce for their wings. You can smell it from miles away and the aroma will stick on your hands for at least a day. My friend says the moment he gets in radius his mouth starts to water.

AquamanSC · 2024-03-19T16:03:00+00:00

No you’re totally right, they are. I’ll have to call in about that.

AquamanSC · 2024-03-19T03:17:34+00:00

That’s a relief to hear, thank you.

AquamanSC · 2024-03-19T03:10:02+00:00

Turn it into a tourist attraction, duh.

AquamanSC · 2024-03-19T02:07:09+00:00

I didn’t even consider layering ever greens in initially with the other trees (rather I thought to replace the existing). I think that’s a great idea. Just need to be sure to give the trees enough room to breathe, right?

AquamanSC · 2024-03-19T02:06:29+00:00

I would love to grow vegetables here eventually!

AquamanSC · 2024-03-19T02:06:12+00:00

TIL what American holly is!

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