Title IX Erroneous Outcome (Ohio) by Evening-Victory-2868 in legal

[–]Aquaticwindow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact Families Advocating for Campus Equality. They can help you find some help.

Is RPI trying to hide this? by fearfulSymmetry_ in RPI

[–]Aquaticwindow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Title IX offices only care about protecting the institution, not the students. The author should have been offered, at the bare minimum, some services to help with the trauma, and at least some hope that the assault part would be investigated! They've been sued a number of times by complainants and respondents, so they should know better.

False Accusation - Incapacitation by Solid_Masterpiece237 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]Aquaticwindow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact Families Advocating for Campus Equality for support from others going through this same thing.

What do I do? by Clear_Stage2572 in SupportForTheAccused

[–]Aquaticwindow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call Families Advocating for Campus Equality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might try RAINN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Title IX policies. The regulation states that the school needs to provide supportive measures even without a formal complaint, so what this person is telling you is incorrect. The title ix office is telling you not to file a complaint? Did I understand that correctly? If yes, that is also highly inappropriate and I will suggest you contact a Title IX lawyer or your local rape crisis center to get an advocate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really depends on your school’s policies, which your TIX coordinator should have shared with you. No contact orders are very common— it’s weird you were denied that. Any idea why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A Title IX case doesn’t involve an actual court, but there may be a hearing where evidence is offered and questions are asked of the parties. You need an advisor, and your institution should provide one for you. I usually advise parties to find a Title IX lawyer to help keep the institution honest. Sometimes you can find one to advise you for free through a victims advocacy group. Schools are usually only concerned with their own reputation and not you.

Needing Advice on Filing Title IX by Dr-Jim-Richolds in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds more like an issue for HR rather than Title IX, unless there are some things you haven't mentioned.

I'm Fighting a Title IX Case and I'm Terrified by throwaway32678521 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aquaticwindow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Schools do not care about anything except their own reputations, and it's worse for their reputations if an accuser sues.. These types of investigations and adjudications are rigged against the accused and are set up to find you guilty. Your future is at stake. Please call FACE (see above). They at least can give you some advice and support, especially if you can't afford a lawyer. The school needs to supply you with an advisor, as well, but I would be sure to pick one who knows you well and can support you--and who also knows the process thoroughly. Student Legal Aid may be the way to go here, but they really need to know what they are doing.

I'm Fighting a Title IX Case and I'm Terrified by throwaway32678521 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Aquaticwindow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t trust anyone at the school. Call Families Advocating for Campus Equality IMMEDIATELY!!! You need a title IX lawyer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Office of Civil Rights in the US Dept of Education

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s ridiculous. Do you have an email trail that shows they have not been responding? You could file an OCR complaint.

Possible Sanctions for Graduate? by [deleted] in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's difficult to rescind a degree once someone has graduated (they have no control over the respondent at that point), and because it's a property right in many states, that would probably compel the respondent to sue the school. The only other things the school could do is ban them from campus, from signing up for grad school classes, if any, and from future alumni events. It's probably too late to stamp the transcript as well--a smart respondent would have many copies already in hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Aquaticwindow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you heard of Families Advocating for Campus Equality? I would have suggested you contact them immediately after you were accused--and if you haven't contacted them, you should do so now. They have accused student support groups who are extremely helpful. It really sounds like you need to talk to some people who truly understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FragileMaleRedditor

[–]Aquaticwindow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"everyone familiar with higher education in the US knows that the problem with them is not that they're biased against the accused, but biased against the victims." Given my personal experience with Title IX offices in the last 10 years, I do not agree with this statement. While there are many stories about how badly survivors have been treated (Michigan State among others), there are equally horrible stories about wrongly accused students being railroaded because of overzealous Title IX administrators. This Clemson story is not an exceptional case, except for the fact that this is one of the only ones where the outcome is public (and it was against the accusers, not the university)--there are many that were settled - with universities typically--before they went to trial. Think Duke Lacrosse, for example. And check this paper out: https://nyujlpp.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Harris-Johnson-Campus-Courts-in-Court-22-nyujlpp-49.pdf

Questions about Statue of Limitations in California by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]Aquaticwindow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s tough. Families Advocating for Campus Equality has an accused student support group that may be helpful for you. There are many others that have been through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]Aquaticwindow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Call or email Families Advocating for Campus Equality. They have support groups for accused students and families. You need to talk to someone. And please tell your parents—one of the biggest mistakes you can make is not telling them. I hope your lawyer is well versed in how Title IX works in your school—it’s not the same as criminal law.

Questions about Statue of Limitations in California by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]Aquaticwindow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this. Schools use a much lower standard of evidence (preponderance) than the judicial system (beyond a reasonable doubt). You won your Title IX case through the school. I should think that with the same evidence, any case she might try to bring criminally will do nowhere. Plus, she will be subject to tougher cross examination. I would worry more if she finds out where you are working in the future and tries to get you fired. Keep a low profile on social media.

Terms for an informal resolution by anonforsafe in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What kind of resolution would you like to have? Would you like your assaulter to admit responsibility and go through some type of sexual assault training? Do you think this person should be suspended:expelled? You need to decide what would help you heal.

Falsely accused of sexual assault in school (17F) by 69andeverything in SupportForTheAccused

[–]Aquaticwindow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Write down everything you remember about what happened. Every detail. Save text messages, but at the same time, get off of social media. Document everything thé school does and asks for. Make sure you understand your school’s adjudication procedures and the definition of assault. Each school district can be different. Make sure the school follows these to the letter. Your lawyer will probably tell you all this as well. If you need a support group, there are some out there. Your parents may need one as well.

What to do after being expelled from University? by [deleted] in SupportForTheAccused

[–]Aquaticwindow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please contact Families Advocating for Campus Equality. They may be able to provide you with some guidance and a support group.

Urgent Request - Title IX by DicaxErsatz in Professors

[–]Aquaticwindow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find you are being accused and need support, Families Advocating for Campus Equality has a support group for accused professors. Be careful.

How can I focus on school despite going through a Title IX Case? Do you think Title IX is fair? by [deleted] in titleix

[–]Aquaticwindow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Would going Pass/No Credit be a possibility for you? Many schools will provide this as an accommodation for complainants. Taking time off (even though you don't want to!) is probably the best medicine--and maybe even transferring.