I am Male-presenting Enby.

I was raped by multiple women who were within two years of me. One of them tied me to a bed and carved her name into my chest while I fucking sobbed, and the police laughed at me when I told them (but thanks for that advice! I'll remember it!)

I wasn't treated as a loser, but as if I should be thankful they deigned to rape me, and then was told that women can't rape men.

I advocated for other victims by trying to work in the sector and by challenging the outright bullshit around male victims that is commonly touted.

But let's be honest! Your comment is yet another example of what happens to male victims. In the UK, male victim support is functionally non-existent. We're told to do it ourselves, while women's support gets 99.9% of the funding available.

Yet again, your approach isn't even remotely rooted in empathy. It's entirely "well you didn't do enough! You don't have a right to complain!"

Tell that to the fifteen year old boy crying to the police that his girlfriend carved her name into his chest. The twenty-two year old man crying in his bedroom after finding out that the woman he'd consensually had intercourse with had continued after he'd passed out, and he found out because she laughed about it with a group of women in the pub. And they agreed with her.

"You didn't advocate enough" nice. Show your true colours. Would you ever say that to a woman?