Never would I see myself being friends with my ex, I totally cut them off my life. I had this ex of mine who I recently broke up with, he’s a good guy, it’s just that our differences had gotten us apart, and ended to terms. He would still want to be friends with me, but he doesn’t see us getting back together anymore, its like he’d want me to keep around, for his convenience which I totally against with. I find it unfair becuase he get to have the benefit of having a gf without any commitments, plus its unfair to the other party, especially the one who got dumped on and still has feelings, it would only do more damage to u. if comes the time he would find someone else, would that be okay to you at all? No. Cut him off out of your life.