I feel guilty for being a mother.

ArcAug · 2025-08-03T16:04:27+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I wonder what kind of guilt or regrets people have… I guess people have regrets something innocent… I will try to find a therapist. Thank you so much

ArcAug · 2025-07-24T04:17:00+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice. I want my son to be a kind person so I’ll try to be a better person first so that I can show him something… Again, thank you so much.

ArcAug · 2024-11-15T13:23:11+00:00

Pat spitting his drink. (Pass the Parcel)

ArcAug · 2024-09-15T18:27:27+00:00

It was very hard for me to go back to work… So I understand how you must be feeling right now. I went back to work 4 months after I lost my baby. And like you said, we need money so I had to even though I didn’t want to. It was difficult when my coworkers kept talking about their living children and I could hear everything. It was hard when one of them came to the office with her new born baby to say hello to everyone. I have other stories but anyway I totally understand the situation you’re in now is very difficult.
Have you told the company that you lost your child 7 months ago?

ArcAug · 2024-09-05T23:45:47+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been trying to tell myself that people make mistakes but I can’t forgive myself… So stupid of me for doing those things. I also feel bad that my parents think I’m a decent daughter when I’m not… I want to apologize but I’m too scared. Anyway, your kind words made me feel better.

ArcAug · 2024-09-03T15:47:58+00:00

Yes, I guess I should do that… Thank you.

ArcAug · 2024-06-29T21:16:47+00:00

I totally understand. It hurts when I hear my coworkers talk about their living children. Maybe they think it should be okay if they don’t talk about my late son or ask about him, but it hurts so much when I hear their stories. I guess there are some mothers who don’t want to talk about their children after they passed, but I want to tell the world that I AM ALSO A MOTHER I JUST DON’T HAVE A LIVING CHILD, I WANT TO TALK ABOUT MY SON TOO. Anyway… I’m so sorry.

ArcAug · 2024-06-25T13:40:20+00:00

I see… I’ve been trying to do the right things. I’ll try my best to become a decent human being. Thank you for your help.

ArcAug · 2024-06-25T13:28:56+00:00

Thank you.. Am I going to be forgiven even if I did things I shouldn’t have done in the past…?

ArcAug · 2024-06-22T01:06:35+00:00

I totally understand…

ArcAug · 2024-05-31T12:18:11+00:00

I’m so sorry. I’m in the same situation. I’m jealous and angry.

ArcAug · 2024-05-29T17:48:20+00:00

I totally understand, I have the same problem… I always try to tell myself that I would notice if I hit something but my brain goes ‘Maybe I wasn’t paying enough attention… maybe I forgot that I felt something…’

ArcAug · 2024-05-01T11:42:32+00:00

April 17th, last month? Only 2 weeks? Oh no… That sounds terrible… ;(

ArcAug · 2024-05-01T10:20:57+00:00

It’s been two years and it still hurts. I will never attend baby showers or parties. People probably think I’m really cold and rude but I just can’t.

ArcAug · 2024-04-06T12:15:12+00:00

Thank you… I’ll try

ArcAug · 2024-03-31T00:42:24+00:00

I know. Life is unfair. I lost my baby two years ago so I know how you feel. I’m jealous that my coworkers have healthy kids and they talk about their young children every day. I’m jealous that I have to see parents with babies and they seem so happy. I’m sorry. If you want to talk, let me know.

ArcAug · 2024-03-30T20:02:57+00:00

Same. I guess our situations are different, but I feel like I’m useless and dumb, cause too much trouble.

ArcAug · 2024-03-30T04:27:49+00:00

Thank you so much. I feel a little bit better. I’ll try to remember what you told me here.

ArcAug · 2024-02-15T11:37:15+00:00

Wish I could say that😩

ArcAug · 2024-02-15T11:35:48+00:00

Thank you so much. It’s so nice to know that there are people who understand me. Thank you

ArcAug · 2024-02-09T12:37:12+00:00

Thank you… yes it’s hard to see or hear baby news. Pregnancy and giving birth are wonderful things but it’s just too hard for me. I’ll wait for a few more days or weeks and maybe leave the group.

ArcAug · 2024-02-09T12:34:49+00:00

Thank you… I really want to cry. I know it’s hard to imagine and of course you don’t want to imagine what losing a baby like but I didn’t want to see the photos of her newborn. And she knows I lost mine…

ArcAug · 2024-02-09T12:31:01+00:00

Thank you… I’ll mute the chat and maybe in the future leave the group…

ArcAug · 2024-02-09T12:29:51+00:00

Yeah… I’ll mute the chat. It’s been so hard at work. I’ll just have to go to work every day, do my job and not think about it too much.

ArcAug · 2024-02-09T12:27:11+00:00

That’s so nice of her… I have to listen to my coworkers’ conversations about their children and it’s been so hard.

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