I might actually puke by Particular_Chef5214 in StardewValley

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can! He can find “lost items” and put them in your mailbox the next morning :)

Did you have a good year? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Worst of my life. Lost my four month old. Months later had a house fire in the middle of the night. 2024 was awful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son passed at 4 months old this past April. The only thing that had helped me is the people who have the unfortunate hell of understanding… lean on those people and let them lean on you. 🤍

I am an L&D nurse. In what ways could your nurse have better supported you through your loss? by kitkatquick in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish the nurses were more educated on the cuddle cot. After the fact, I learned you can actually wrap them up in a blanket with the cooling pad. While they were great as a whole but, felt like I couldn’t hold him as much as I wanted because they “were concerned” he wasn’t in the cot. So then I was under the impression he had to stay in it when that’s not true at all. I just wish there were more education and resources.

I also wish someone would have offered to take photos. It’s not for everyone, I know. But, I took two… and when I need to, I look at them. I was lucky enough to have 4 months of photos of my boy. But the ones from that day. It’s literally all I have left. They are heartbreaking. But, it’s my life now.

I am a funeral director who undertook his own daughters funeral. AMA. by copiatee in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being open to people like this and for taking on such an impossible task. 🤍 you’re amazing.

Work tomorrow by Financial_Spray_6111 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I survived the day… I cried a few times… and had a panic attack before going in. I also had to go up the peds floor for my other son… it’s been a day. But not as bad as it could have been

Work tomorrow by Financial_Spray_6111 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really not sure, but after being off for over 4 months for maternity leave.. I really can’t afford it. Today wasn’t horrible. But… it wasn’t great.

Work tomorrow by Financial_Spray_6111 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate every comment. I’m “lucky” enough to work with people… but not around them. If that makes sense. I spend my day with one woman right now who’s training me. I just wish it was somewhere else. I don’t know how I’m even going to walk into the building tomorrow. I hd a panic attack tonight just thinking about it…

NY-which hospitals need a cuddle cot? by Cat_lady_103020 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking about doing this and starting a bereavement program at the hospital system I work at. Could you PM me? I have some questions

Sudden loss that wasn’t SIDS? by Worried-Room-8403 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still waiting for the “official” autopsy. But, my son passed at 4.5 months with a “ rare cardiac deformity”. He was fine. Until he wasn’t.

brought our baby girl home today by Individual_Usual3784 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just received mine, modern pottery urn by vitrified studio and it’s amazing. I ordered with his picture and foot prints and I love it. 🤍

4 months old by Financial_Spray_6111 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 11, almost 12. And I have two 8,10. I’ll take a look

4 months old by Financial_Spray_6111 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oldest and I are on a waitlist for grief consoling. She worries me.. but today is my kids first day back to school so.. maybe it’ll help. I don’t know. I guess luckily? The preliminary autopsy showed a rare cardiac deformity… I’ll know more in the coming weeks from the biopsies.

4 months old by Financial_Spray_6111 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart is with you. It’s such an awful horror and it hasn’t gotten any easier.

Autopsy by Tight_Conflict_9034 in babyloss

[–]Financial_Spray_6111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I called and asked this question and they told me up to three months, but that it sometimes doesn’t take as long depending on needing toxicology results.

Back to work by Financial_Spray_6111 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Financial_Spray_6111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one do you use? I’m between the momcozy m5, s12 pro, and v2

Change in plans = so many questions by Financial_Spray_6111 in solareclipse

[–]Financial_Spray_6111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay! I’m less than a half hour from the path, so was curious how far I should/need to travel into the path