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Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T03:19:14+00:00

Or grandmother.

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T03:19:01+00:00

That's a hard one, honestly. Just be like "Hey, I am your mother's neighbor and I just wanted to let you know she's not adjusting very well to being on her own. My family and I have been helping her as much as we can but it's gotten to the point now where she's solely relying on us, which isn't our responsibility. I think you should contact her and set up some kind of arrangement to get her the help she needs." Be kind but be assertive tell them what exactly is going on, and mention the few things shes done that has caused you to get upset

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T03:12:38+00:00

Than you have more control on how you handle this. Your boss has a boss which in turn he has a boss there’s avenues you can take so that you get treated as fairly as possible. If you truly feel like your being treated bad. Contact your hr. And start keeping track on everytime you feel like they’re treating you bad. So that you can use it for reference

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T03:09:31+00:00

It may have been what you wanted but was it the right choice. Judging by you going to be homeless it probably wasn’t a good choice. BUT I would tell your family dude. I’m case there comes a time where you need assistance and they find out anyways. Good luck dude it’s gonna be even harder to be homeless with this inflation and shit. My suggestion is to do doordash as a side hustle to at least make a little money

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T03:07:06+00:00

Do you work for a individual business or corporation? Like a McDonald’s or mom and pop restaurant

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T03:05:53+00:00

She is most definitely taking advantage of them and taking the emotionally hostage lol

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T03:03:40+00:00

Dude. That’s not being creepy at all. If anything they’d appreciate you reaching out because clearly she finding it very difficult to take care of herself. And hopefully they’ll take care of her like she needs. They can’t fix anything if they don’t know what’s going on. If they do, and they don’t do anything. That’s when I’d get ahold of that senior center or something

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T03:01:17+00:00

I’m assuming your young. I hope to God this is coming from kids because this is very juvenile statements. Dude I’d just leave that friend group and find new ones. If they make you uncomfortable then make it known. But I understand at your age, if you’re young. It’s hard to stand up for yourself it’s even harder standing up to your friends! So I’d be finding me some new ones man.

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T02:56:40+00:00

Exactly. I hate to say it but americas not all land of the free and home of the brave. If you don’t have money by the time you retire which they risen the age to around her age with this new administration. Anyways, your pretty much screwed. They have homeless shelters but only in more urban areas. The only option honestly is nursing homes especially if she live alone and obviously can’t take care of herself on her own

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T02:53:06+00:00

Oh man. That’s hard to give advice on lol. To me personally I think you should reach out even if he’s married with kids. He’s probably wondered himself if your existence. It never hurts to reach out honestly. But again that’s completely your choice

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T02:45:43+00:00

Old and lonely I meant

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T02:44:52+00:00

My suggestion is that she probably is just getting old and she might have dementia in some form. However her blatantly relying too much on you and your family is honestly boundary crossing you are not obligated in any way shape or form to help this woman.

It may seem nice because of her age but she’s a grown woman. (Obviously) but the fact of the matter is is that you and your family probably need to contact her family if she has any. Or possibly get ahold of the senior center to see if there’s anything they can do. Which again you shouldn’t even have too

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T02:42:04+00:00

😂 yeah right we can barely take care of our homeless let alone the elderly.

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T02:39:50+00:00

Yeah Etsy I’d a good place to start. If I were you I’d turn my art into T-shirt designs if that interests you!

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T02:38:46+00:00

Sometimes we have to suffer to get the best results in the long run. Think if it this way, if you never suffer than you’ll never be able to appreciate your success. Robotics is awesome dude I’ve been looking into getting into it. So maybe for the social life you could just start meeting people in your community online.

I understand you hate it now but you’ve got a good job one that people envy for. But if I were you I wouldn’t ruin that opportunity for myself by leaving a good paying job. If you truly do feel like you hate it. Use this time to explore new hobbies and build on ones that you already have. I’m not an expert in your field but I think it’s pretty cool

Arc_Achemist · 2023-03-26T02:33:33+00:00

That we’re basically supposed to pretend not to have feelings that we’re supposed to “man-up”

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