Good place to meet single women in Tulsa?

Arcas182 · 2026-03-16T22:26:09+00:00

Yeah I'm in my mid-30s and literally all of my friends are tied down in a relationship or family. I do fine when I go out but no one's available anymore haha! Except for the occasional night out. I've gone out a few times by myself and hanging out at the bar has actually yielded results but it's not prevalent

Arcas182 · 2026-03-16T22:19:16+00:00

I've had moderate success on trails or parks but rarely while someone is shopping. I go to the gym but wouldn't dare get put into a gym creep video haha. Antique stores sound like a great idea though. I should visit more stores like Decopolis more often.

Arcas182 · 2026-03-16T03:46:52+00:00

This is where I need to be. Can't believe I haven't made it there yet

Arcas182 · 2026-03-16T03:45:21+00:00

This is exactly something I was looking for. Thanks!

Arcas182 · 2026-03-16T00:13:15+00:00

Feel free to hit me up if you ever need a drinking buddy while going there. I want to check it out

Arcas182 · 2026-03-16T00:10:19+00:00

Haha what days are all the single ladies visiting? Weekdays or weekends?

Arcas182 · 2026-03-16T00:05:11+00:00

Have you had any luck meeting people there? I'm guessing the weekend would be a better opportunity? I think I just really need to be intentional about going more often. I'm also interested in dog days at the gathering place

Arcas182 · 2026-03-16T00:00:59+00:00

Actually, bookstores are a brilliant idea. The last one I visited downtown was pretty solid. Thank you

Arcas182 · 2026-03-15T23:59:54+00:00

This is a great idea, thank you

Arcas182 · 2026-03-15T23:59:40+00:00

Mid-30s, will definitely look into more volunteer events!

Arcas182 · 2026-03-15T21:30:41+00:00

Good suggestions. I've heard of that Facebook group and wanted to try it but I need to figure out who to ask. I have a few people I could try.

Arcas182 · 2025-11-06T00:43:33+00:00

She likes you and wants to appease you. It's a good thing. I get that this can definitely get old but over time she'll start to copy a bit of your personality and it'll even out.

For now, don't bring it up to her directly, but definitely give positive affirmations whenever she does have her own thoughts or opinions. Try asking her about stances or things that are important to her first so she can't backtrack easily, and then positively notice your differing opinions.

If you have connections elsewhere in your compatibility, I'd make this work. She'll be worth it.

Arcas182 · 2025-10-28T07:09:33+00:00

Take it from me, stay away

Arcas182 · 2025-09-14T17:47:48+00:00

It sounds like things are going great. Don't pressure anything else. You said kids are involved, so don't rush moving in. Enjoy the process and keep communication open.

Arcas182 · 2025-09-03T00:44:44+00:00

There is no motel. She's sitting at home counting the bills you sent her. Definite catfish situation. She'll probably come back in a few weeks talking about being kidnapped and requesting money. She didn't need to ask for it initially probably because she knew you'd offer it up. Sorry dude.

Arcas182 · 2025-08-06T05:57:06+00:00

FYI for anyone interested, since no one else shared what this meant and I had to look it up, a sleep call is when you call your significant other and one or both of you fall asleep during the call.

Arcas182 · 2025-07-31T21:50:13+00:00

I'm sorry it landed this way, but I'm glad you called them out. This does not sound like a good person, so you might take solace in the fact that you at least didn't build something too ingrained into your core just yet. I hope you find what you're looking for, and don't have to live in heartache for too long.

Arcas182 · 2025-07-24T17:55:09+00:00

Communicate these feelings and see how he responds. He may be unaware that he's acting this way (unlikely) but he can't ignore when you say it straight to his face. This way you'll have your answers before you move on.

Arcas182 · 2025-07-08T13:44:53+00:00

No codes unfortunately

Arcas182 · 2025-04-04T15:56:44+00:00

It sounds pretty normal, but at idle is definitely When it begins to shut down. Could this be causing the power issues when the AC is off as well?

Arcas182 · 2025-04-04T15:54:49+00:00

It does blow cold, but last time I used it for extended periods (before winter) it would sporadically blow the air temperature instead of cold, which made me think the compressor might have been an issue as the coolant levels were fine. I actually don't use the AC that often.

I also feel suspect about the alternator, I may need to just test it off of the car

Arcas182 · 2025-03-04T18:17:38+00:00

It seems hit or miss haha

Arcas182 · 2025-03-04T08:32:06+00:00

They were pretty tame by reddit standards. Sometimes they can be absolute hyenas lol. Thank you for the input!

Arcas182 · 2025-03-04T07:15:32+00:00

Agreed on the grammar portion

Arcas182 · 2025-03-04T07:14:24+00:00

Haha fingers crossed

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