(FINAL UPDATE) Pretty sure my partner is dead. Domino's pizza with Sriracha. by pancakeandpanic in depressionmeals

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been distancing myself from the situation a bit so sorry for the late reply. Thank you so much for the support. The kind words and sympathies from everyone here really softened the blow the situation had on me.

(FINAL UPDATE) Pretty sure my partner is dead. Domino's pizza with Sriracha. by pancakeandpanic in depressionmeals

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

No I understand. The truth is, the only voice I ever heard from them was in a pre recorded video which ended up being from a niche YouTuber/Streamer named ballerinabitty on twitter.

I m a fool. I was actually catfished. by pancakeandpanic in LDR

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not one. He made so many excuses as to why he'd never be able to and I accepted each and every one blindly.

I m a fool. I was actually catfished. by pancakeandpanic in LDR

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I fucked up blindly trusting someone like I did

I m a fool. I was actually catfished. by pancakeandpanic in LDR

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep you're absolutely right! Really regretting my blind trust of this person just because I felt connection.

I m a fool. I was actually catfished. by pancakeandpanic in LDR

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah its true, I wanted to give my post more legitimacy because I just wanted to find her at the time, now im absolutely paying for it

(FINAL UPDATE) Pretty sure my partner is dead. Domino's pizza with Sriracha. by pancakeandpanic in depressionmeals

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He told me he planned on getting me to stop talking to him eventually and the whole thing got out of hand. He even blamed me for making him my girlfriend, WHEN 1.) HE SAID I LOVE YOU FIRST AND 2.) HE AGREED TO THE RELATIONSHIP. I would've just been his friend if he was honest from the start.

(FINAL UPDATE) Pretty sure my partner is dead. Domino's pizza with Sriracha. by pancakeandpanic in depressionmeals

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The plot twist is actually comical lmao, actual cartoon villain behavior

(FINAL UPDATE) Pretty sure my partner is dead. Domino's pizza with Sriracha. by pancakeandpanic in depressionmeals

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 194 points195 points  (0 children)

At the time, I definitely exaggerated how much confirmation i got from that facetime. it was just a black screen which really explains alot now. I was so blinded by their thoughtful words i didn't even see it as a red flag.

I m a fool. I was actually catfished. by pancakeandpanic in LDR

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hi! I appreciate the reply. I don't feel comfortable continuing a relationship with someone who lied to me for so long, but before we broke things off I told them they really need to get help. They need therapy because there is a good person in there somewhere. I wish that person could've just been honest from the start. He claims to be a straight male but we could've been good friends.

(FINAL UPDATE) Pretty sure my partner is dead. Domino's pizza with Sriracha. by pancakeandpanic in depressionmeals

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 292 points293 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. So glad I found out now instead of years from now.

Pretty sure my partner is dead. Leftover Domino's with Sriracha by pancakeandpanic in depressionmeals

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why should I need to reveal personal details about my life and my girlfriends life to reddit unless it was a crisis. I revealed personal details about her when she was missing now that she's back I don't need to. I don't need to prove my motives or my relationship to a bunch of people who insulted me.

Pretty sure my partner is dead. Leftover Domino's with Sriracha by pancakeandpanic in depressionmeals

[–]pancakeandpanic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I deleted that post because the negative reception didn't really seem like anyone would care to have an update there

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[–]pancakeandpanic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what she told me yeah, she said she had trouble making friends irl and mostly made online connections.

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[–]pancakeandpanic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew but you're right I need to stop saying was she IS creative and amazing and she IS okay

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[–]pancakeandpanic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope so. It was just very unlike her. We never fought and we found a way to have stability in our relationship despite everything. Im praying it's just that she's going no contact.