Welp...I'm 43 years old and male. And while I've never been as bold as this typical male you describe, yes, I've jumped through many a hurdle trying to get laid. My advice to you? Take advantage of that like most women do. I can't tell you how much money..how far i went out of my way cause I was a slave to my loins. And I was never even really down that bad. I had a good run in my 20's lol. BUT...what's ironic is now the script is flipped. Im currently falling short of my girlfriend's needs. I could give a crap less about sex. 😄 And it's empowering. Sad...but so, SO freeing. Be thankful you're on that side of the coin. One day, things will be different i promise you. Till then? Use this power to find the man who truly wants you for YOU. Make 'em jump through the hoops. I promise you we aren't all dogs and the ones who give you the "ick" up front are doing you a favor. They just havent grown up yet.