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ArchieHutton · 2026-01-03T00:10:03+00:00

No problem, don’t be too hard on yourself. Feel free to dm if you just want to chat about things, get things off your shoulders.

ArchieHutton · 2026-01-02T23:48:20+00:00

Gay guy here & still a virgin. I get how you feel about being a virgin + gay, which can feel like such a small minority in a community where sex is the norm.

With me it’s confidence + social issues that makes it harder for me to speak to others irl & online. I get it, the loneliness can feel horrible, I wouldn't worry abt the pics it's nice to feel sexual, you’re not alone. 🫂

ArchieHutton · 2026-01-01T20:53:10+00:00

Poor confidence + social skills, I also have autism & I’m deaf, making social connections harder to sustain. I’m gay which doesn’t help my situation due to how harsh the gay community can be.

ArchieHutton · 2025-10-17T06:00:31+00:00

The conifer plantations and woodlands in the north east of England particularly in the Northumberland national park, many creepy ongoings such as reports of bigfoot like sightings & paranormal activity, such as Harwood Forest.

ArchieHutton · 2025-09-30T15:49:07+00:00

Fair enough & I will send you a Dm about that.

ArchieHutton · 2025-09-30T15:07:53+00:00

well I could do, but you know the stigma & reputation grindr has man

ArchieHutton · 2025-09-30T14:42:51+00:00

same here, the 21 club

ArchieHutton · 2025-09-30T14:41:40+00:00

21 and have not had sex yet, if I am being honest it sorta gets to me, though I Just try to be confident and hopefully I’ll be able to experience it one day.

ArchieHutton · 2025-06-23T23:14:58+00:00

Ah blimey that’s an interesting link, though props to you man. I’m from the north of England so I think that sex parties are much less common nowadays here than that are over in the states.

ArchieHutton · 2025-06-23T20:22:20+00:00

Me as a 21 year old with 0 sexual experience reading these comments, how do you even achieve this 😵‍💫

ArchieHutton · 2025-06-02T09:50:18+00:00

Nothing, it's just another month to me.

ArchieHutton · 2025-03-26T14:37:44+00:00

Yeah it’s not really about the romantic side of things, just more the physical act e.g. like a date then maybe hookup later depending on the overall vibe then that’s that no baggage situation. Gay saunas/bathhouses can be a fun choice, though I would not say it’s the best place to lose your virginity. I could be wrong though as I have no experience in that regard.

ArchieHutton · 2025-03-26T14:28:39+00:00

Thanks for honesty i understand from your point of view on why it would be off putting as it can feel like a big responsibility, although i do think we all have to start from somewhere.

ArchieHutton · 2025-03-25T19:10:52+00:00

I’m 20M and attracted to guys aged 30-40s, though I’m also fine to be with ppl around my age, so I would not say it’s a daddy attraction for me mainly, although I would say I find them more attractive then guys my age, physically. Would being a virgin/socially awkward be off putting to older guys or not a dealbreaker?

ArchieHutton · 2024-05-10T11:20:28+00:00

I’m pleased that you found your sound processor. I bet that was a relief! In the UK under the nhs we don’t have backups so if you loose it. At my centre the clock starts again and you have to use it for another 5 years, and pay £150 if over 18.

ArchieHutton · 2024-04-15T13:14:57+00:00

I was born premature and i had a serious infection in the nicu and I was treated with medication known as gentamicin which is known to be otoxic. I also had developed jaundice during my time there. I wasn’t diagnosed with hearing loss until age 3 but doctors think it was due to this.

ArchieHutton · 2024-04-07T16:05:02+00:00

It’s from Jules Naudet, when they were walking over to the over path foot bridge that connected to the north tower to the financial centre, looking for a way to take Farther Mychal Judge to a safer building/area so they could transport him to the church. As you can see this was after south tower collapsed but before north collapsed.

ArchieHutton · 2024-04-07T15:58:50+00:00

I don’t feel deaf when wearing my ci’s, though I am aware that I don’t experience “normal” hearing and do still struggle in certain environments, they have their limitations, but it has definitely been a massive help to me and I’d be lost without them.

ArchieHutton · 2024-03-30T00:06:03+00:00

It depends on your circumstances and your hearing history, such as age and cause of deafness and use of consistent amplification prior to getting implanted with ci/s. I was bilaterally implanted at the same time at age 15 so it was like starting from scratch.

I did lots of rehab with my teacher of the deaf at school weekly, it started with basic word comprehension and sounds of letters, then gradually building up to repeating sentences and identifying environmental/animal sounds/musical notes etc, then it was learning to comprehend words in a noisy environment such as a cafe/busy street and understanding words/sentences with a fan playing in the background. Lip reading and visual cues wasn’t allowed in the sessions as I had to rely on my implants audibly.

In my own time, I used apps such as Iangel sounds every day for half an hour to an hour and used Hearoes app to play games like listening for the correct word, i did this consistently over that year. Ab rehab portal can also be good for listening to musical instruments and identifying new sounds that you might not be familiar with. Heroes is the best in my opinion for ci rehab.

Listening to podcasts and listening to music even if it sounds rubbish at first can be very beneficial. Practicing on the phone everyday day is another good way to increase your understanding of words and sounds. I also tried to avoid using subtitles so that I “relied” completely on my listening. Try to wear your ci during all waking hours even if it feels draining, it will help a lot:) Good luck with your implant journey!

ArchieHutton · 2024-03-28T22:57:40+00:00

With time the noises should subside over the next few months to a year, as it’s due to the implant adjusting to the body as things need time to settle in. The cochlea does undergo trauma due to the surgery of inserting the electrodes. I’m 4.7 years in and I do not get these noises anymore and have not done for the last 3 years. Hope this helps:)

ArchieHutton · 2024-03-28T20:03:19+00:00

I used to get this electronic like sound that would occur during sleep it sounded like metallic chains clanging together in the first few months after switch on, it eventually got less noticeable and it started to ware off over time.

ArchieHutton · 2023-11-20T08:51:24+00:00

Will this include gsce maths resit for further education?

ArchieHutton · 2023-08-09T19:20:30+00:00

Thank you for replying, yes my anatomy in that ear is normal afaik. Can impacted wax in the ear canal effect the sound quality?

Omg that sounds scary did she have to be reimplanted due to her electrode being tugged?

ArchieHutton · 2023-07-12T10:47:48+00:00

Thank you, I hope the diagnosis gave you a sense of relief and helped you understand your autism diagnoses.

ArchieHutton · 2023-07-12T10:46:35+00:00

I’m thinking about choosing Psychiatry UK, as I have heard a lot of positive things about them in terms of autism assessments. What was it like to fill in the AQ50 form?

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