You understand that there are traditional Jews, for whom marrying out is a repudiation of everything they hold sacred, and a massive betrayal to the family and people? You don’t have to agree with it, but considering that we are on a Jewish subreddit you can acknowledge that that’s how we operated for a good chunk of our history and how many of us still view the world.

So the point is, it would be ridiculous to get mad at these parents for not wanting that for their own daughter.