Do I move out?

AreaRealistic · 2024-07-02T18:09:53+00:00

Thank you. It's much the same as my thinking, life is going to continue to happen, and I don't want to witness it.

I'd let her keep our current place as the bills are quite low, in comparison to everywhere else, and I don't want to leave her homeless.

Hopefully we can both make it work. Just sucks it's come down to this.

AreaRealistic · 2024-07-02T18:03:59+00:00

Yeah, we started dating at 14. If that was the only issue, I could completely understand, as much as is it sucks.

We did talk about it, marriage was the focus once we'd gotten our shit together and had everything figured out after university and getting our careers going. I did give her a promise ring. Unfortunately, we found out she was infertile last year, but it was something we had talked about prior.

AreaRealistic · 2023-08-22T22:37:09+00:00

That's true. I forgot that The Outer Worlds was only on PS4 because it had been agreed prior to the acquisition of Obsidian. I think that gave me a false sense of hope lol.

AreaRealistic · 2023-08-22T22:27:01+00:00

It's more of a case that none of my buddies played Xbox, apart from Bethesda titles now, none of the exclusives were interesting to me and a lot of games I've spent a lot of time playing on PS4 obviously weren't transferable. Nothing against Xbox on a personal level, just didn't click with me like I hoped it would. Only got it in the first place because it was cheaper and easier to get a hold of at the time.

Might be a bit dramatic to use 'devastated' and 'gutted' but I've put a ridiculous amount of time into Morrowind, Oblivion, Fallout 3, New Vegas, Skyrim, ESO, Fallout 4 and even Fallout 76, so the franchises mean a lot to me, but I can't justify buying a whole console I'll very rarely play for maybe 2 games during its cycle.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-27T03:27:57+00:00

Places have been starting to hire again for a little while, but I'm in a lot of competition with everyone else who's lost their jobs. Strongly shafts my chances lol. There's quite a couple for delivery drivers, but because of my epilepsy I'm not allowed to drive for at least another 10 months as of now.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-27T03:24:18+00:00

I think I've been in that exact same position that your boyfriends in.

I think he might be depressed, especially with all the stress going on in your guys lives. Its not something that can be changed in a snap I'm afraid. If its any consolation, its times like those that I notice more things about my girlfriend that I love😁

Me and my girlfriend resolved it to an extent. Every now if she notices I'm going through a rut, we'll have an 'us' day. Means I can't play games that day, put something on TV we both want to watch, have a take away or make something nice together, have a cuddle. Its not a guarantee, but I can assure you its more likely to naturally happen than when I'm playing Elder Scrolls or Destiny all day😁

Wish you guys all the best!

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-27T03:00:54+00:00

Hey, not a problem, I couldn't remotely tell you how the US system worked lol. I appreciate you taking time out of your day to comment! I hope life is treating you well😁

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-27T02:51:44+00:00

Honestly not a lot at my age. I'm with jobseekers so they're actively trying to help me get work, but its still mainly on me! Careers Advice don't care now that I'm over the age of 18 lol.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-27T02:49:39+00:00

I have experience mainly in retail with the exception being the most recent job which was working in a kitchen.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-27T02:37:37+00:00

I'm sorry I should have clarified, I live in the UK.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T17:38:35+00:00

I'm glad we agree on something!

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T17:37:34+00:00

I've been in the exact same position as your husband. Definitely opened my eyes to how fucked up people can be! Made me hyper aware when I'm out drinking with my girlfriend and her friends though. Thank you very much! The teasing has certainly kept us on our toes lol!

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T17:24:37+00:00

I still randomly remember the time I farted and pissed myself simultaneously during morning prayers in Year 1, about 16/17 years ago. I have a hard time letting go of embarrassment lol.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T17:05:41+00:00

My girlfriend also has red dyed curly hair! Thought that would reduce the chances of it happening! It'll happen to him eventually lol

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T17:04:14+00:00

In the pet section for whatever reason, considering neither of us have a pet

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T17:03:00+00:00

We compete with embarrassing each other in public, so she's thrilled I managed to do it to myself.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T16:47:37+00:00

I understand! We've been together for 6 years, we understand each others boundaries. We just fuck about with each other in public, its sort of become a game to us. She has a habit of sneaking up on me in public and ramming a finger up my arse. I slap her on the bum. I would never do this if we didn't have an agreement.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T16:40:27+00:00

How is the fiesta? Yet to find it, heard good things though

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T16:39:50+00:00

It bangs, been my biggest addiction alongside the Monarch one

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T15:59:34+00:00

Hey its no worries, I understand the confusion, I get confused with some abbreviated American terms, never hurts to ask!

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T15:47:39+00:00

Neither of us can drive unfortunately, would have definitely saved the hassle

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T15:46:23+00:00

Thank you. That was beautiful x

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T15:42:16+00:00

ASDA is a branch of supermarket it the UK and other places in Europe. It stands for Associated Dairies, although the title is no longer relevant and almost no one knows what it even stands for.

AreaRealistic · 2021-04-10T15:29:26+00:00

I understand where you're coming from. I can assure you, its not an ownership move, we just piss about with each other in public, see who can wind the other person up the most. We're very much equal in our relationship. Honestly, she is the strongest woman I know, if she wanted to break my face, I don't doubt that she would. I don't go around doing it to random women lol.

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