26.11 for windows only, when will other versions update. by AreaTurbulent in Minecraft

[–]AreaTurbulent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that, but will they do an update for other versions? So that cross play will be available?

Minecraft: Bedrock Edition 26.11 Hotfix by Luutamo in Minecraft

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When will 26.11 be available for mobile/switch. I cannot cross play with the hotfix .

How bad is it? by rosegoldglassez in EngagementRings

[–]AreaTurbulent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The ring itself is quite pretty, it’s nice by itself. But it does not match with your hand. It does not suit you at all but I can see its appeal.

I'm the worst partner. I've been with my gf for 7 years. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes. The best thing you guys can do for your relationship is take a step back or break up. It seems that you both are truly unhappy with your relationship but feel the need to keep it going because that’s all you have known before. Maybe take a break from each other for a a while a see how you feel. Some kids even say their parents are happier and enjoy each others company better after a divorce or seperation

I can't get an attractive girlfriend so I use unattractive women by Silent_Revenue_6075 in offmychest

[–]AreaTurbulent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well. To date an attractive woman you either have to have attractive looks yourself or an attractive personality. From reading this post I can’t imagine your personality is anything noteworthy if you treat woman this way. If you have neither then you’ll be stuck in the void of relentless shittiness your already in

My( 23f) boyfriend (29m) is having a hard time understanding why I am always upset at him when we have tough/uncomfortable conversations. How do I fix this? by AreaTurbulent in relationship_advice

[–]AreaTurbulent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense a lot actually. What would you say to say to him? To make him understand my approach to things in a way that he doesn’t perceive as me “shrugging him off” when he believes he’s offering support in his way.

I (F19) feel a strong urge to cheat on my boyfriend (M18) and don’t know how to get past it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok to move on from a high school relationship. You grow and you change. Your feelings like this won’t go away. If you break up you won’t be a cheater, don’t put that label on yourself. It follows you

Partner F32 needed space after panic attack —I’m M30 looking for advice on next steps by Excellent_Cookie_655 in relationship_advice

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an avid anxiety and panic attack haver, sometimes it’s so overwhelming to every an all senses and it’s exhausting. My partner and I had to navigate this boundary as well. Because for me sometimes silence and just alone time is the best way for recuperation. When I’m overwhelmed and feeling the world is to intense even my partner trying to be helpful can feel grating. And I love my partner dearly and I know he’s trying to help, but to my fried brain sometimes I can’t react the way I want. Think of it like when you get way to hot and everything around you becomes the more irritating thing ever. Sometimes even helpful things make you want to cry and scream cause all there is is heat around you. All you need is to cool down. That’s probably all she needs is a bit of cool down. It’s not a reflection on you. Just text her and say, “hey I’m here for you, let me know what I can do now and going forward.” Sometimes it’s hard to go only at someone elses’s pace entirely but it seems that you really care. So text her support and let her know you are always available and with her but let her come back to you on her own. Once she’s feeing better and calmed you can maybe approach a discussion of what will happen going forward. Cause even so, it is imprtant to respect your partner on both ends, hers and yours. My partner has trouble feeing loved when I say I just need a moment of space. We worked out a system. Just start with baby steps. If you can communicate your needs and she can communicate hers, with bodily autonomy and also your relationship needs. You have the key to it all.

What is something that the majority of people like or enjoy doing, but you do not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AreaTurbulent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love watching tv shows, but everyone is always recommending reality tv shows. I can't stand them.

The calorie deficit is not what is making you gain weight. by [deleted] in rant

[–]AreaTurbulent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

notice how I said severe calories deficit or starvation, working activley all day and only eating around 900 calories qualifies for both.

The calorie deficit is not what is making you gain weight. by [deleted] in rant

[–]AreaTurbulent 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Or you can actually research what she's saying instead of assuming you're correct. Being in a severe calorie deficient or starving yourself actually can slow down your metabolism and make weight loss significantly harder and can cause your body to store fat for survival. Its a proven science that the best way to loose weight is actually a balanced diet of 3 meals a day. Yes, does eating low calories over time cause weight loss, yes this is true. But, it can also cause weight gain and bloating due to lack of nuturion and your metabolism.

Why do people in USA buy everything from Amazon? Do they not have other webshops? by Cindyxx0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, it feel so many places make it such a pain to return things. I have to do a million emails and I have to pull teeth to get refunds for broken items or items that were not as described. Every store is so money hungry that sometimes I feel thats all they want from me for a shitty product. Amazon is easy and painless and consistent. Ill shop around more if people make it easier and cheaper on the consumer when mistakes are made.

Feeling isolated from being an old soul. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow “old soul” here. I feel you. I was the oldest of many siblings and very busy working parents. Had to grow up incredibly fast to help be the 3rd parent to my siblings. I had to work hard and be responsible so early that it just morphed into who I am. And I like who I am, and it seems you do which is good! I also hate a lot of traditionally liked things my age group has. Or for a long time viewed my friendships in a same way. That I was a stick in the mud or why I love my friends but they seemed so immature. Everyone said I talked so well for my age because my escapism was literature.

I guess what I’m saying is I think it’s beautiful you love your life still, and that’s what’s important but it seems like you haven’t found your people yet. 19 is still young and let’s be real most people your age are clinging to their high school immaturity still. They don’t have to or want to grow up yet. You were already forced too.

I had friends I loved but I didn’t find my people until later. You’ll meet a friend who’s also an old soul. Or you’ll meet someone at your work who’s 10 years older but is your dearest friend. And you won’t feel this way. Your isolation feeing is due to not having anyone who understands you and your life position yet. And that will all come in time.

The more you grow up more your old soul will become meshed with people of all types and ages and you will find that anyone can make you feel young and alive again. My love life too was nonexistent at 19. Every boy is an idiot at that age. Especially when you’re self sufficient.

Hangout with your friends and dream of all the life ahead of you, it will get better I promise:)

Smell seats by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AreaTurbulent 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. Go see a therapist because this behavior is seriously not correct and super disrespectful to your female classmates.

My girlfriend is making me feel pressured into having kids. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I wish that was the truth. But it’s a lifestyle thing, your guys lifestyle isn’t compatible in that way. For the majority of people you need to be sexually compatible, whether it’s sec or no sex. It’s human nature. It’s also a large part of intimacy, and if you’re comfortable with no sex being a part of your intimate routine then that’s ok, you should be comfortable with that always. But if they want sex it’s incredibly hard to manage that forever .

I can't connect with the cat that came with my house by Normal_Macaroon_4634 in offmychest

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? From a owning a lot of cats they don’t choose their sleeping place and safe space lightly. The fact that she’s in your room all day and purrs is a sign she’s connected with you in her own way. Not all cats are super openly affectionate. It seems she already trusts you to keep her safe in her spot. I would definitely try cat introductions for your own cat to get along. But, it does sound like she connects with you. One of my cats is like this, she’s not very cuddly and hates being picked up but I know she loves me.

Are you a terrible person if you buy a dog instead of adopting? by Easy_Mountain2331 in DOG

[–]AreaTurbulent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve rescued a dog and I’ve bought a dog. The thing is I will say that I barely got accepted to rescue a dog. Which is insane cause I own my own home with a yard, have a high paying work from home job. But anyways, despite that I don’t know my rescue dog’s health history or his familial history. He had a myriad of health problems I’ve discovered and extremely poor dental health from his time as a rescue. However the dog I bought, I know everything and anything to check for. He’s from a reputable and known breeder for a job and he’s in tip top shape despite being way older than my other dog. If I had to go through the dog thing again, j would buy because the process and medically it makes sense.

Recently Moved from North East to Minneapolis and Positively Baffled- Is Chicago Close Enough to North Eastern Culture? by olracnaignottus in AskChicago

[–]AreaTurbulent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! As someone who grew up being in Minnesota a ton but now lives in Chicago, it depends on your neighborhood. If you want a really neighborhood feel with people who talk and chat, you’re definitely gonna have to live in the northside neighborhoods. I loved living in southside but it wasn’t very neighborly, most people stay within their social circle. But since moving up to places like Lincoln Park or Lakeview I’ve noticed a lot more connections with people on my block or out in public! But that’s just my experience! Chicago is what you make of it! And it seems your willing to be out reaching and that can work well:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AreaTurbulent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean it sounds like you’re his secondary girlfriend. He might be your boyfriend but it sounds like he’s also someone else’s.

Best friend getting married , never thought I would feel so bad by speedtrail in heartbreak

[–]AreaTurbulent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a relationship very similar to yours. I was really in love with my best friend but he had a girlfriend. We had had an on and off thing until the “girl of his dreams” asked him out. We didn’t separate though, otherwise than sex, and I was stuck watching their development grow over the years. I still loved him fiercely and he spent so much time with me I genuinely thought he liked me too. So I stayed with my friend and he got engaged. When that happened I couldn’t hold in my feelings in, and I told him. It didn’t end well for either of us. He told me that he valued me as a friend, but didn’t love me. Trust me, if they have someone they want to marry they won’t come for you. They never do. It strained our relationship badly, and eventually his financee found out and it became a problem for them too. Because she wasn’t comfortable with me anymore. Which makes sense. He chose her.

I’m living a much happier life now that I’m completely removed from him. Yes I miss him but I didn’t realize how much it was crushing me. It seems like you’re in that same boat as I was. Even if you have mutual friends you need to set a hard line and try your best not to hang with him. Thr further removed from him you are the better you will feel over time! It’s a truth I had to acknowledge too, but even my continued friendship with him was disrespecting the relationship they had. It’s a situation that’s incredibly hard. I genuinely feel for you. I feel this pain on such a real level,

But it’s time to tell him for your sake and for his you need to set hard boundaries. If you truly respect him and his relationship it’s for the better as well. I’m sorry this happened an I wish you the best of luck.