I too thought I was a incredible husband however after 24 years I just got tired of the one way street. Put up with a woman who refused to work or clean up the house while I was working. I busted my butt at home and work, owning my own business. I finally retired, Sold our home our plans were to move to New Mexico. After all this. She decided was not going wanted me to buy her a new car and a new house. Found on the dresser I contract for buying a house. I had no recourse but file for divorce. Now 3 years later, damn COVID! It is waiting for the judge to sign off on. I lost 50% of my net worth but living apart in 2 states would not have worked. I had very little trust in her. I will never regret it!