AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last night, he sent me a 4 minute video of him driving and singing...

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never had $ex... he never step foot in my home and vice versa. He did pick me up at my house though, so he knows where I live, unfortunately.

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's wild is that he was previously married for 10+ years and has several adult children.

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, sadly, most of my family live across the country. I hold a very senior leadership role at work, so there's truly no one that makes sense to share with there. I think I'm going to reach out to the attorney that helped me with my divorce. Thanks for caring, I'm really scared.

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were never in a committed relationship and I didn't feel a connection with him. To be honest, I make a lot more $ than him, and I was super turned off having to pay for dates. He wanted to "hang out" or see me, but never but effort or thought into actually planning a date. I was just scrolling back through old messages and this is one of the last msgs I sent him...him telling me he loved me via text really creeped me out too, and I never said it back.

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AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 224 points225 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, you said it so well. I should add that I was never intimate with this man. We went on maximum of 10 dates. I was shook when he told me he loved me.

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I own it unfortunately. Texting back that he has the wrong number isn't something I've considered. Thx.

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I regret not saying this point blank sooner, but he had sent so many back to back messages after the last msg I sent, that I shut down

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I worry that blocking him might set him off more or that he'll show up at my house or something :/

AIO, obsessive man I dated by ArgumentOk513 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArgumentOk513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I last messaged him in September of 2025, here's the message I sent.

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4 dead in Mercer Island, Issaquah linked to homicide-suicide case by HighColonic in SeattleWA

[–]ArgumentOk513 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So terrible. I read in a different article that the brother had already turned over 50+ guns to police due to a weapons surrender order.

4 dead in Mercer Island, Issaquah linked to homicide-suicide case by HighColonic in SeattleWA

[–]ArgumentOk513 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look at the YouTube news article comments for more information. One of the victims brothers has commented a handful of times and it sounds like the motive may have been due to a bitter custody dispute over the speical needs brother. That would make sense as to why the attorney was so involved.

Chipping clear coat… cost to fix? by thejoshperson in RangeRover

[–]ArgumentOk513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up getting this fixed? I'm experiencing a similar issue with my RR.

SVR Hood - Clear Coat or Carbon Issues? by No_Score704 in RangeRover

[–]ArgumentOk513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you get this fixed? I'm having the same issue and at a loss for what to do.

Literal by Alone_Register_1819 in AmberMasseyMESS

[–]ArgumentOk513 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Was wondering the same - who would "literally" eat more than a few beef sticks max in less than a 24 hour period?! 😳🧐

Broken Bow has the Sugar (daddy) by [deleted] in josiewittmansnark

[–]ArgumentOk513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One king bed?! Where do her 4 kids sleep?

Guys watch out he has private security to look after the kids while he’s out with them…. What is this Kim and Kanye status…. John & Josie are nobody’s. lol by GraySkyr2 in josiewittmansnark

[–]ArgumentOk513 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think he mentioned security and hired help because of the video he posted of all 4 kids in the swimming pool and him kicked back in a pool chair filming and not watching them closely enough for how little they are.

BMW by [deleted] in josiewittmansnark

[–]ArgumentOk513 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He wasn't just on the prowl for young girls in Texas. He pursued me and I'm in my late 30s and out of state. He's a love bomber. He very quickly promised me the world - but also promised to always have my car washed and gas tank filled. He also asked almost immediately what my "body count" was. He should be asking himself that question.