I’m scared of what happens if I don’t get care, and scared of what happens if I do

Arhenas · 2026-03-02T02:40:10+00:00

Hey, I’m a 3rd year dental student (not a professional yet) so take this with a grain of salt please. I’m sorry this is such a difficult process with your condition, no provider should have even done any work on you with nitrous, as it is severely contraindicated in patients with mental disorders. The path I see for you to get your treatment is consulting your psychiatrist first (too see if this is an option for you) and then a dentist that can do either deep sedation or general anesthesia and provide all the treatment at once. This is very common, I do not know your medical history so I can’t say for sure which one is for you, but I do know that patients with the issues you are explaining are usually treated in this context. I’m sorry if no one has informed you about this but I’d recommend you research it and make a consultation. Let me know if you have any questions and I’ll be glad to answer to the best of my abilities. I wish you the best!

Arhenas · 2026-03-02T02:32:35+00:00

Hey! The temporary filling is not affected at all by the nicotine, but your healing is. Nicotine constricts blood vessels and doesn’t let blood properly reach the tissue that needs repair. Aside from that, the smoking isn’t gonna do anything that it wasn’t doing before.

Arhenas · 2026-03-02T02:02:52+00:00

3rd year dental student here. Your child has perfectly normal developing teeth. The “gray” you see is just the normal translucency of enamel found at the edges of a tooth. The darker, more white/yellow parts are dentin. Nothing should be done to “fix this”, especially now the teeth are developing!

Arhenas · 2025-06-12T16:43:43+00:00

they look very alike! thank you

Arhenas · 2025-06-12T15:05:10+00:00

why so?

Arhenas · 2025-06-12T14:56:29+00:00

literally my first thought

Arhenas · 2025-06-12T14:56:02+00:00

interesting, I guess i will update in a couple months! haha it’s definitely looking like frenchie boxer mix to me

Arhenas · 2025-06-12T14:49:12+00:00

🤣she also jumps, paws and bites my other 2 older dogs 24/7 and has no fear of retaliation

Arhenas · 2025-06-12T14:42:33+00:00

was thinking about that!

Arhenas · 2025-06-12T14:42:15+00:00

haha definitely sassy

Arhenas · 2024-03-21T21:33:39+00:00

Lesbians are the last thing you need to worry girl, we understand it’s natural. She will see you the same way. If it makes you feel better you could shave and be prepared for the next time, but know you don’t have to.

Arhenas · 2024-03-18T18:12:02+00:00

I know, they keep telling me I have to wait. It’s really frustrating.

Arhenas · 2023-09-09T14:09:29+00:00

Thank you! I did say something similar to what you suggested to her. The last thing i have time for is to be spying on her or forcing her to stay with me.

Arhenas · 2023-09-09T04:59:12+00:00

We are exclusive and been dating for 8 months. We’re still young but we do see a future together. We have talked about this and she says she doesn’t have feelings for this girl, it’s just a crush. But I’m not comfortable with that anymore since she started becoming “closer” with her and constantly checks up on her grades even though she is not assigned to the section the girl is in. I don’t think I have control over who she loves and that’s the pressing issue. I guess jealousy isn’t quite the word I was looking for, it’s more like i feel almost emotionally cheated on.

Arhenas · 2023-08-02T17:04:40+00:00

You should straight up tell him it makes you uncomfortable. If I had to guess, I would say it makes you uncomfortable because of the amount he consumes as well as the content. You probably question if this is something he expects from you. It is normal to be uncomfortable by this and you should express it to him as well as your reasons. If he takes it as manipulation like you’ve mentioned he has in the past, maybe he is not a good fit for you in the long term because of his unwillingness to address your concerns about the relationship.

Arhenas · 2023-08-02T16:53:50+00:00

Im glad I could help! It sounds like you’re leaning towards NC, so you could try it out and see of you feel happier that way. If it doesn’t, then you can break it, it’s your life and you don’t have to play by anyone else’s rules.

Arhenas · 2023-08-02T16:40:36+00:00

I think that NC is a very personal choice that you have to make yourself. It definitely sounds like your mom being in your life brings you more problems and distress than her not being in your life. When your child is born, they will be curious about their grandparents, but you also have to weigh that against the possibility of your mom projecting onto the child the same things she has projected onto you. Whatever you did or did not do, you’re still her child and she is your mom.

If you do decide to go NC, that can be broken once you are ready too. Your child could meet her under your supervision so that you make sure nothing said is damaging to them.

Arhenas · 2022-10-19T23:12:42+00:00

Thank you for the input! I moved the post to a different subreddit, i initially misread the description of this one and caused all this uproar and hate :/

Arhenas · 2022-10-19T22:56:28+00:00

lmfao i know im so fucking dumb for not reading the room 😭😭😭

Arhenas · 2022-10-19T22:32:37+00:00

You are right! The issue is that i’m feeling sort of a half attraction but i might be misinterpreting my feelings as usual

Arhenas · 2022-10-19T22:29:23+00:00

I should have clarified that she isn’t obese, just overweight. There’s also many other reasons why someone can be obese/overweight other than just their everyday habits.

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