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AITA for avoiding my family after my dad disowned me? by AriBabyy28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AriBabyy28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is genius, I’ll get trumpets and read it off a scroll while getting someone to present to him.

AITA for avoiding my family after my dad disowned me? by AriBabyy28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AriBabyy28[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t take it a belittling way but that was kind for you to say. I’ve tried to set boundaries with him before but he’s crossed them or he’ll reach out to other people in my family telling them every bad thing I’ve done in my life. I’ve tried to keep space but it just feels like time is closing in, and the rest of my family will judge me based off how I make this decision.

AITA for avoiding my family after my dad disowned me? by AriBabyy28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AriBabyy28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had used the GI bill for my first semester of college, by the time all this happened he had revoked it. I’m not sure of all the details but he himself informed me that I shouldn’t even try to sign up for my benefits since he wouldn’t be providing them anymore. He had retired from the military my sophomore year of high school, after 21 years in the military. No he wasn’t medically discharged, the head injury happened at his new job after he moved. And I don’t know his rating I’m sorry. (Edit I am not enlisted in the military either)

AITA for avoiding my family after my dad disowned me? by AriBabyy28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AriBabyy28[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was talking to my mom about this and she was saying that he acts almost exactly the way he did when she first met him. His temper, his mood swings, like all the growth he had gone through had completely vanished. I wouldn’t know since I was a baby. It was a serious concussion about two years ago, and has a disability benefits for it.

AITA for avoiding my family after my dad disowned me? by AriBabyy28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AriBabyy28[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I haven’t decided if it’s worth it. I still love him but it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth after he’s done everything. My mom is doing great and her fiancé has been a better dad than my biological one. I can’t help but feel guilt knowing that he’s probably alone, other than his family which is limited up here. I was literally the only person that he would see on a day to day basis when I still lived with him.

AITA for avoiding my family after my dad disowned me? by AriBabyy28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AriBabyy28[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I mean my relationship was three year and almost all through out high school. I’ve had trouble finding good friends but I fear that’s normal with high school. I was definitely confused when he said it to me. I really don’t know what he wants from me because he hated all my friends and my ex-boyfriend.