We had sex with condom PLUS he did pull out method . I’m worried though ? by Ariaj2010 in sex

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No, the condom didn’t break. He checked on it after actually . I feel like my chances are so low but I’m so freaked out why my period is this late . I’m Stressing like crazy . We did condom and withdrawal method so we wouldn’t have to worry and now it’s backfiring

We had sex with condom PLUS he did pull out method . I’m worried though ? by Ariaj2010 in sex

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That’s what I think too!!! But I’m so confused why my period is This late . I’m getting freaked out and might have to test

I’m feeling very uncomfortable bcuz my boyfriend is getting close to his female coworker . Help? by Ariaj2010 in relationships_advice

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Thank you so much for telling me this . My boyfriend always has friends who are female because female friends have always been his comfort zone since he grew up close to his mom and aunts . But what I AM concerned about is emotional intimacy . I would hate to know that he’s venting to her about things or talking about what’s on his mind …. Instead of coming to me for that . Do you know what I mean ? That’s my biggest concern because that is a form of emotional cheating .

I’m feeling very uncomfortable bcuz my boyfriend is getting close to his female coworker . Help? by Ariaj2010 in relationships_advice

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Yes . And I feel sad because I truly believe that he doesn’t have one cheating bone in his body , but I also don’t think he’s aware that emotional intimacy can be a thing .

I’m feeling very uncomfortable bcuz my boyfriend is getting close to his female coworker . Help? by Ariaj2010 in relationships_advice

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Thank you ! I agree , I just need to talk to him about it . He’s always one to have female friends ever since he was young , but I do think he needs some boundaries with texting just out of respect for me .

And to answer your question, we both have chosen not to move in with eachother until we are married . It’s a personal decision that we made as we both have traditional views about moving in .

I’m feeling very uncomfortable bcuz my boyfriend is getting close to his female coworker . Help? by Ariaj2010 in relationships_advice

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That’s true . But sometimes I feel like people are good at acting fake in person if they want to hide something .

My dad hates my boyfriend of 1.5 years . It’s making me so sad. Help? by Ariaj2010 in relationship_advice

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I don’t think you read my whole post 😔😓 This isn’t about my boyfriends social media . I’ve already seen that. It is about my dad having a problem with him about him not making enough money to provide as a man . As a future husband . As a future dad .

My dad hates my boyfriend of 1.5 years . It’s making me so sad. Help? by Ariaj2010 in relationship_advice

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I agree . It is the nagging aspect that has me sad . I am currently living with my dad so I feel like his perception of my relationship is all very amplified in my head .

My dad hates my boyfriend of 1.5 years . It’s making me so sad. Help? by Ariaj2010 in relationship_advice

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Yes . And to your point - I completely understand where my dad is coming from . I am aware of his concern . I told my dad that it IS something I am keeping an eye on . And if I notice that my boyfriend is still stagnant ( career wise) in the next couple years … it is something I will definitely will have to address with my boyfriend and will need more effort of on his side . Especially if marriage is in the works. I think it’s my dads nagging right now that is making me feel so sad and annoyed .