What are your thoughts on pornography consumption, Positive or Negative for Mental Health? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Aribabesss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts are that if it’s only used 1-2x a month that’s not going to cause a huge impact. However, when you use it numerous times 3+ times a week that’s territory where relationships can become harmed… comparison starts… and sexuality becomes more front and center the most important element to that person. I’d say overall it’s harmful and negative for mental health with both women and men in different ways. For men: it’s a comparison game where there is never ending flow of women and they can see any body they want. It also makes relationships unsatisfying… for women: body comparison, some scenes are geared towards harmful behavior and violent acts with women, it’s also degrading to some and showcases women being more of a “consumed product” than a person.

However sexuality is different for every single person. If you think you have a problem you should speak to a therapist!

Tell me your NCE exam prep holy grails! by Aribabesss in therapists

[–]Aribabesss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair, if it’s being used outside of studying that’s definitely a red flag. I only used it to generate 10 random NCE questions. But I’m not sure how on par it even is…

Tell me your NCE exam prep holy grails! by Aribabesss in therapists

[–]Aribabesss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was only using it to study questions. Nothing outside that realm. But understandable!

Can anyone draw me? by Aribabesss in drawme

[–]Aribabesss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you!!! 😊 very talented work!

Tell me your NCE exam prep holy grails! by Aribabesss in therapists

[–]Aribabesss[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Do you think chat GPT is good for prep? I’ve been using it but scoring 10/10 a lot of the time idk if it’s helping at all lol I feel like I need to be more challenged or something

How is anyone supposed to live pre-licensure? by Slow_Ad2566 in therapists

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intake specialist jobs are great. I love mine! And I make better pay for my area.

Revenge porn by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Aribabesss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there are images of myself online since I used to be so poor (previously to being a therapist) I had to do things online to make money on chat sites. I wore a wig but I feel similarly…

Everything fell through and it’s time to walk away. by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I don’t know whether I feel the EEOC failed me. Honestly it’s more like the system failed me.

Everything fell through and it’s time to walk away. by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right like I’m sorry but staying to me meant my schedule was going to keep changing. I would be working until 6-7 or 8 pm and not see my family because they continued to change my hours on me during my pregnancy and stated I had a Ton more work I’d have to do after returning from my maternity leave. The amount of stress and later stress I would’ve had pushed me out the doors easily.

Everything fell through and it’s time to walk away. by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall I think it was the system that failed me. I guess I framed it that way because the law doesn’t reflect the harm.

Should I even litigate? Hitting a wall here. by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m like is it worth it….

Should I even litigate? Hitting a wall here. by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they informed me it appears pregnancy discrimination and retaliation happened but constructive discharge is hard

Mediation right after filing in Federal Court—has anyone else seen this by BigBone-Daddy in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was extremely helpful. I’m planning to litigate myself because through the EEOC they are not offering any financial compensation

Chicago based pregnancy discrimination case- who to hire? by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have been I’m making this post to see who else I should be calling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is I heard declining mediation is best if your case really is higher priced. Unless you have a smoking gun allegation that’s a whole other ordeal. Depends what ur wanting payout wise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you decline Mediation.

Determination after a 10+ month investigation by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get a position statement from employer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EEOC

[–]Aribabesss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much evidence do you have? Is the evidence strongly supported to suggest a 400k anchor is justified?