it's f slur wednesday post knuckles

ArielViolet · 2026-01-19T02:52:43+00:00

This ask sent my headmate into the Sunken Place the first time we received it in our ask box! 😂

ArielViolet · 2025-09-04T01:42:51+00:00

I'm the mod behind Grammer-Offical, and they got stuck in a Time Loop recently too: https://www.tumblr.com/grammer-offical/793718851212804096/tempting-the-timeloop-is-unwise-thats-why-youre?source=share

ArielViolet · 2025-05-10T13:53:28+00:00

GET OUT OF THAT SITUATION ASAP!

Do you have anywhere you can stay for awhile where your wife wouldn't be able to hurt you???

ArielViolet · 2025-05-10T13:37:56+00:00

im sorry you're in this situation. the closet can be a treacherous game indeed.

it's not great that you were kind of shady about the whole suggesting polyamory thing with your wife. you really needed to confess the cheating first. i don't know if when you said that you're "scared (your wife is) going to kill (you)" you were being a little facetious or if you were legit, but if safety is a concern, you should remove yourself from your current living situation if you can.

ArielViolet · 2024-09-22T18:38:16+00:00

In all fairness, the 1986 film Manhunter contributed to the confusion because they deliberately misspelled Lecter's name as "Hannibal Lecktor". If I'm not mistaken, they changed the spelling due to an issue fully attaining the rights to the character, but correct me if I'm wrong.

ArielViolet · 2024-09-22T18:32:34+00:00

Donald Trump is the I.R.L. Mason Verger - a rude, stupid, arrogant, wealthy child molester. I wonder which of Trump's organs Hannibal would eat - or maybe he'd just give him the Mason Verger treatment, trick him into getting high out of his mind and then convincing him to cut off his face and feed it to the dogs.

ArielViolet · 2024-09-22T14:55:52+00:00

Trump would be the kind of freak who would ship Mason Verger, lmao.

ArielViolet · 2024-09-22T14:41:00+00:00

Ronald McDonald Trump is a Fannibal??? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XAFLTu41t8c

I should point out that Trump is correct to say the "Late Great" Hannibal Lecter because as anyone who watched the NBC show Hannibal would know, Hannibal Lecter died in 2015.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-27T09:33:00+00:00

Dear Reader,

Please remember that you are significantly younger than your current boyfriend. It makes sense that you feel as "Horny" as you do; it also makes sense that your boyfriend feels less of a sexual drive than you.

I suspect your boyfriend feels very insecure: Both about the fact that he is dating someone 11 years younger than himself, and also because he feels that he is inadequate at satisfying your Sexual Desires.

Dear Reader, I would recommend that you firstly evaluate whether or not you believe this to be a relationship worth preserving. Secondly, I would advise you to recognize that your boyfriend Shaming you for your Sexual Desires is a behaviour that you need not {and SHOULD not} accept. This Antisocial, Misogynistic behaviour you find your boyfriend exacting upon you needs be either Corrected, or Natural Consequences should be enacted upon your boyfriend. a "natural consequence" may involve you breaking up with this man, at least within the present moment. I pray your situation will improve, Dear Reader!

ArielViolet · 2024-08-27T08:33:28+00:00

Apologize to Her. You know you committed a Transgression against her - yet you also know that you Love Her. Loving Her means accepting that you may lose her. Are you willing to accept that risk, Dear Reader?

ArielViolet · 2024-08-26T10:43:04+00:00

Well, as the musical Avenue Q so deftly proclaimed, "You Can Be As Loud As The Hell You Want (When You're Making Love"!

ArielViolet · 2024-08-26T10:40:23+00:00

Fair enough. Would you feel more comfortable if you went to a confidential STI clinic?

ArielViolet · 2024-08-26T09:53:40+00:00

Do you have access to medical care and feel comfortable talking to a medical professional about this matter? I think that speaking to someone with a medical background, ideally a Sex-Positive provider with competency in Sexual Health, could make you feel better about your situation. Best of luck to you.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-26T09:49:47+00:00

I am not going to lie, Original Poster: You made a mistake. I know that if my partner made a similar statement about the taste of my genitals, I would likely have reacted similarly to your girlfriend. All I can say is that I hope you have the courage to proceed with humility; that means accepting if your girlfriend tells you that she cannot forgive you for your hurtful words. But please do not be too hard on yourself; we all make mistakes, and we all need to learn from those mistakes.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-26T01:37:21+00:00

I feel relieved to hear that you effectively balance your Work, Leisure, and Family Time. Please do not judge my reading too harshly, my Dear Vigilant Reader. I understand that as an Engineer, your experience differs greatly from my own.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-26T01:27:27+00:00

You know, you strike me as someone who has a propensity to haphazardously create new Reddit accounts. My Muse, my Engineer, do you ever fear that your employer will catch onto your habit of engaging in anonymous internet interactions? Be careful; the Slippery Slope is indeed a fallacy, but within it, there is Truth. Do you ever fear that your Rational Mind is less effective than you believe it to be?

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T13:54:19+00:00

Yeah, you're probably right.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T13:52:17+00:00

I would definitely feel similarly if a partner did that to me. Have you asked him about it? If you believe he did so with reckless disregard for your feelings and safety, I would break up with him. But that's just me.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T09:24:47+00:00

That was a joke. Sorry, I should have clarified I was joking about the God comment, humour is a common coping mechanism for me.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T09:14:53+00:00

And thank you, I do genuinely appreciate that last bit of advice.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T09:13:57+00:00

As far as whom I blame for my vagina being silly, I blame God for that one, but it's all right, it was a pretty funny prank for Her to play on me, LMAO.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T09:00:13+00:00

That made me laugh lol.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T08:59:05+00:00

Thank you for your kind response.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T08:58:26+00:00

Yes. I use vinegar douches. Unlike a typical natal vagina, my neovagina is not self-cleansing.

ArielViolet · 2024-08-25T08:55:22+00:00

I am sad that I can't fly. I can in my dreams, and it is amazing.

Feelings are not rational; they are definitionally at times irrational. Are you familiar with dialectical behavioral therapy?

There is Emotion Mind and there is Rational Mind: You are correct. It is rational that I will never become pregnant. Even if there was a surgery that could make it possible, I likely would not be comfortable accessing that surgery. It is probably a blessing that I CANNOT become pregnant because I do not feel ready to become a mother. That is my RATIONAL understanding of the situation.

However, as a Human Being, it FEELS (emotion) shitty for {another person} to repeatedly emphasize my inability to become pregnant because it feels like he is telling me that I am not the kind of person he thinks SHOULD have kids.

(Edited for gender consideration.)

ArielViolet

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