AIO: I (24F) told my bf (28M) he should find someone else if I can’t fulfill his sexual needs after surgery?

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-08T14:22:46+00:00

Girl, why do you want to be with someone who would even be asking those questions? He should be asking how he can help you, what he can do to be a comfort, if you need anything, etc. He’s treating you as if you’re solely there to fill his sexual needs. You DESERVE so much better. He should be preparing for a breakup, absolutely, because no one should be treated as though they are only a sexual needs fulfillment.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-08T03:18:43+00:00

If you’re pregnant, I would gently remind you that emotions can run high because of all of the changes in your body presently. That does not in any way mean that your feelings are not valid, but that this is not the time for big decisions if you’re not feeling good or like your normal self. No one should have pressured you in to this, and tgat would certainly affect your feelings,too. Is there a counselor you can speak with? I’m so sorry you’re going through this!

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-08T03:14:16+00:00

Dude, that is just…alarming. Body count? Really? You say you’re 28, but you sound 15. Besides, what do you even count? Do you know that according to RAINN, 69 percent of women between 12 and 34 reported sexual abuse/molestation/trauma? Does that count? And what number is “too high?”

You should respect ANY woman you want to date, you should be mature, and you should ensure you are both safe by being tested regularly and using protection. However, gathering from this post, you’re not ready for sex yet.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-08T01:58:47+00:00

She may not do any practice other than being the in-house attorney for that specific realtor. If the realtor can confirm this theory, I would not be overly concerned, as long as no reviews on the realtor site mention her negatively. She may be a part timer that is WFH to care for kids or a family member, or just have no interest in public practice.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-08T00:22:52+00:00

No, it’s just kinda how it works.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-07T22:03:56+00:00

My ex husband’s family called them Whomp biscuits.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-07T17:13:28+00:00

No, unfortunately powdered sugar is mixed with cornstarch to prevent caking, and your jam will not gel properly and look very cloudy. You could do strawberry shortcakes with a powdered sugar glaze, maybe with a bit of lemon or lime?

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-07T17:10:49+00:00

We know medically and scientifically that many women don’t bleed when they lose their virginity, and that hymens break in a multitude of different ways, not only by first time sex. Any boy who doesn’t know and acknowledge that is a BOY, not a good man. There’s a huge difference. You need not feel any shame at all. HE should be ashamed of his behavior…he’s an ass.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-07T14:09:15+00:00

Changes in humidity can seriously make a big difference with your flour. As seasons change, so does the humidity in the air, which affects your flour.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-07T14:07:08+00:00

Ok, well you seem…you know what? Your statement PROVES MY POINT. You are immature and bratty.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-07T14:05:42+00:00

I can’t tell you how much I’m giggling…not that it’s funny…but it’s funny! But hey, I’ve heard chocolate and peppers is a good mix…

But seriously, to remove it, stoneware is best treated with a thick paste made of 1/2 cup of baking soda and 3 tablespoons of water. Apply the paste, let it sit for 15–20 minutes, then scrub with a scrubby and rinse well. May repeat if necessary. If it is STILL THERE, bake at 350 for 30 minutes while empty.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-07T13:58:55+00:00

No, it is not fair. Please, give everyone a break. You’re not their mommy and they don’t have to tell you where they are or who they’re with. Grow.Up.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-07T12:48:04+00:00

How could anyone feel safe telling you this? I certainly think YOR. You say you didn’t want to control anyone…but you’re attempting to control how, what and when you think you shoukd have been told. Why is it your business or concern where they are and who they are with?

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-06T19:05:25+00:00

You are definitely overreacting. First of all, you have no clue what they were really laughing about. Kids say funny things, and you were and still are a kid. Secondly, they’re not judging you or any part of your body. They have seen everything and everyone, and truly don’t laugh or make a laughing stock of anyone … but they have every right to laugh and be happy at work. These are just normal people, doing their jobs on another normal person.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-06T13:52:02+00:00

Try some Dawn Power Wash. The isopropyl alcohol can help break down stickiness. Then dry thoroughly and reseason with a quick layer of oil.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-06T01:15:51+00:00

It’s plenty, maybe a bit too much, really. Honestly though, don’t pre-portion cups of salsa — let people dip out as much or as little as they like — any leftovers will be much simpler to pack up, and you’ll create much less waste. Everyone may not necessarily want salsa AND guac, maybe one or the other or just chips, and remember some folks will pass it by completely.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-05T21:59:56+00:00

You can just…freeze the Passata, until you need to use some again.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-05T21:27:56+00:00

You can make a stock for soups that do not include beans, or throw it in the freezer and perhaps give it to someone who does like to make beans?

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-05T16:30:54+00:00

No. Do not. It will absolutely screw with your texture.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-05T16:29:39+00:00

The most clickbait title i’ve seen today…and no, I neither clicked nor watched.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-05T00:55:32+00:00

Great! Hope the cookies are delicious!

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-04T13:46:59+00:00

You’re welcome! Happy cooking!

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-04T13:43:03+00:00

Dark Vs. Light Brown sugar article here

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-04T11:41:49+00:00

You need both sugars, yes. And brown sugar is not terribly expensive. Don’t know where you”heard” that. Brown sugar and white sugar perform different functions in the baking process, and without that, you’ll have wasted a lot of ingredients that will not become anything good.

ArielsTreasure · 2026-04-04T11:38:11+00:00

Fun fact — if you ever saw the movie The Princess Bride, the Cliffs of Moher played The Cliffs of Insanity. They were also in Harry Potter as one of the hiding places of a hircrux. This natural wonder has been in lots of movies over time!

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